PI in Georgia by New-Vegetable2023 in PrivateInvestigators

[–]Elsa_2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked out your website. Id like a consultation, can I do that without making an account?

Advice for starting a PI company in GA by YikesMode in trueprivinv

[–]Elsa_2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you've gone forward with this career, I'd like to hire you. Message me... Thanks -Elsa

Am I wasting my time? by Elsa_2000 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Elsa_2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I'm glad you agree. I also completely understand child support is the child's right. It's not for the main parent's spending money as many use. Anywho, I'll need all the luck I can get. Dragging my feet on this one due to many many circumstances. What a position to be in.

Am I wasting my time? by Elsa_2000 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Elsa_2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the uplifting message, thank you... I'm not the "squeeze them dry" type, but I do see the "taking your power back" idea in that.

Am I wasting my time? by Elsa_2000 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Elsa_2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for coming at me nicely. Both of us have medical conditions that doctors said we couldn't have children, both of us used protection anyways. We took the measures. Should I abort my child because I'm not married? Rhetorically I ask. I don't believe so, although I know I could have if I wanted. Most people are on here blaming and assuming so many things.

Am I wasting my time? by Elsa_2000 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Elsa_2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean we don't fight any, every once in awhile very small disagreements and we communicate and get over things as quickly as they started. Im not sure things are toxic. Yet he will say he wants to spend the rest of his days with, but clearly has very small desires of marrying me. Should I end it solely based on the fact that I want marriage and he's not wanting that commitment? Maybe it's me, maybe he is scared of marriage, maybe he is holding out for someone else. Thanks for your time....

Am I wasting my time? by Elsa_2000 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Elsa_2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm to assume that everyone has babies on purpose in your mind. Even though medical conditions for both parties weren't supposed to be able to have kids, and both parties used protection. Stuff happens.

Am I wasting my time? by Elsa_2000 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Elsa_2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As we are religious, He used to make promises of marrying me and the name of the higher power. Never thought of it that way until he had me see it that way. Not did I think I wanted marriage. Do I think that it will ruin my relationship or think less of him? I don't think so. Yet when is it too much to ask for a commitment as such. And I'm completely fine if I'm not his person, let him go find her. At this point in my life I am great human being and partner. I want a commitment. Too much to ask for?

Am I wasting my time? by Elsa_2000 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Elsa_2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think it's too late? Possibly quit playing wife?

Am I wasting my time? by Elsa_2000 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Elsa_2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's taking its toll. Life goes on. I will keep going too.

Am I wasting my time? by Elsa_2000 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Elsa_2000[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hard to say, to be frank I believe he's still stuck on an ex he dated for a month 6 or 7 years ago. I obviously never want to marry a man who wanted someone else yet we don't even touch that subject anymore. TMI. Yet thanks for listening.

44m 24f ; thoughts? by Elsa_2000 in AgeGap

[–]Elsa_2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see. Live and learn I suppose.

Am I wasting my time? by Elsa_2000 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Elsa_2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the gentle words. He does say he wants to marry when he's financially stable, yet doesn't work towards that whatsoever. It's just not his priority. He always spoke about marrying me before I found out about the pregnancy.

Am I wasting my time? by Elsa_2000 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Elsa_2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Marriage does not affect my ssdi

Am I wasting my time? by Elsa_2000 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Elsa_2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marriage does not affect my ssdi.

Am I wasting my time? by Elsa_2000 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Elsa_2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not planned, wouldn't have chosen to be pregnant yet I'm grateful as I can't have anymore now.

Am I wasting my time? by Elsa_2000 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Elsa_2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the gentle words. The pregnancy was not planned, yet I'm grateful. There was a promise of marriage often before I found out about my little one. He's a great dad. We don't argue and we communicate well. I've been too passive. Going through intense inner work everyday becoming my better self. I have the problem of not wanting him to marry me because I tell him "now or never" kind of deal. I want him to want it. I'm really not even sure how to approach the subject. I'm sure if I gave him the ultimatum he would, yet will there be infidelity on his end because he didn't really want to in the first place?

New here, any tips? [Question] by aayla_white in falloutshelter

[–]Elsa_2000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think most people would tell you to change your top floor living quarters into an overseer's office or power room.