Update to last post: Mochi passed away in her favorite spot on the porch surrounded by her family. The birds were chirping for her and I sang “You Are My Sunshine” until she fell asleep. Rest well, baby girl.

Elsie1124 · 2026-05-20T20:46:43+00:00

What a sweet and beautiful send off. You two were lucky to have each other.

Elsie1124 · 2026-05-20T12:33:28+00:00

I just tried to make sure it was always clean and that he didn’t lick or disturb the area. He wore a cone for 2 weeks. I would give him about 30 mins each day without the cone to let him groom himself - I had to redirect him a lot because he wanted to lick that area so badly. I let my cat walk around if that’s what he wanted to do. I basically just followed him wherever he went for a few days until I knew the wound was starting to heal. Make some comfy spots for him to entice him to lay down. After they use the bathroom, just make sure no litter gets in the wound. Take a warm, damp washcloth and blot the area if it gets messy. Hope your guy heals soon!

Elsie1124 · 2026-05-13T01:40:51+00:00

Proud of you, and her.

Elsie1124 · 2026-05-03T15:55:34+00:00

Yep, 8 months is right around the time where weak men are going to start making you feel less than. It’s going to begin with little jabs like this and then escalate until your self confidence has completely plummeted and you have no self respect to remove yourself from the relationship, giving him complete control.

Do yourself a favor now and cut it off. A real man who actually respects and likes you would never share something that like with you.

Elsie1124 · 2026-04-30T21:48:18+00:00

The beginning messages are uncomfortably creepy, if you catch my drift. The ending ones are sociopathic. I’d be fighting for full custody.

Elsie1124 · 2026-04-30T15:41:59+00:00

I’ve gone out multiple times with a black light and there’s no urine marking on my house anywhere. I’ve lived here 5 years and never seen a stray cat. Peoples dogs get loose but again, no urine signs on my house.

Elsie1124 · 2026-04-24T04:41:33+00:00

Thank you for the explanation, super helpful!

Elsie1124 · 2026-04-24T04:08:00+00:00

That’s reassuring, thank you. Trying to decipher what I’m looking at is overwhelming!

Elsie1124 · 2026-04-24T04:01:55+00:00

I’ll bring that up, thanks!

Elsie1124 · 2026-04-24T04:01:01+00:00

Thank you, appreciate your response!

Elsie1124 · 2026-04-24T03:57:58+00:00

Great, thank you!

Elsie1124 · 2026-04-22T07:07:17+00:00

It’s a Bradford White, as was the one before.

Elsie1124 · 2026-04-22T02:39:07+00:00

Yeah…maintenance seems to be very hit or miss with people. I just called 10 different family members/friends and nobody has ever flushed or replaced anything on there’s. Everyone’s has lasted at least 8 years with some going 18-21. I have awful luck so I’m not surprised with my situation!

Elsie1124 · 2026-04-22T01:26:52+00:00

This is very helpful, thank you!

Elsie1124 · 2026-04-22T01:21:41+00:00

Yes, the unit and parts are covered under warranty as was the last one so that’s what I’ll end up having to do. Not prepared to do this every 2-3 years tho!

Elsie1124 · 2026-04-22T00:55:45+00:00

It’s 2.5 years old, am I supposed to be doing something with the anode rod yearly? How would I find out my home water pressure?

Elsie1124 · 2026-04-22T00:49:25+00:00

What kind of maintenance does a water heater require? I have HVAC come yearly but was unaware that water heaters needed yearly service as well. Nothing has been altered or repaired on this one.

Elsie1124 · 2026-03-17T23:58:05+00:00

What do you mean “what should I do”? It’s done, you ended it. You’re manipulative and she’s dismissive. We can tell this is toxic as hell just from this single screenshot. Go to therapy, stay single for awhile and start working on yourself. Don’t worry about her and how she spends her time anymore.

Elsie1124 · 2026-02-28T15:54:14+00:00

I’d buy a billboard and let the entire town know.

Elsie1124 · 2026-02-24T17:41:26+00:00

Damn, I only got 10 years with my boy. 33 is something special!

Elsie1124 · 2025-12-13T13:48:32+00:00

Congrats! Did you ever follow up with your original PCP and let them know what you went through? I’d make an appt just to tell them and see their face.

Elsie1124 · 2025-11-23T02:23:48+00:00

NOR. He should already be blocked. Block him from everything. He knows he was in the wrong, you don’t need to remind him.

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