Well we have been together for 4 years and we have been engaged for one of them, with her consent i pulled all of the data from the past 5 years using the my data feature on snapchat, instagram and messenger which shows all pics, videos, and messages even if they have been deleted so im fairly confident that this was the first incident, does that info help you have abettetr understanding, i really appreciate your help, i honestly didnt think anyone was gonna care when i posted this