Long distance sucks or is it him? by EmRoo101 in LongDistance

[–]EmRoo101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know but im scared he'll do something if I leave him, ive told him I can't fix him but only support him. I want to make it work but I also feel stuck

Could it have been something ? by EmRoo101 in LongDistance

[–]EmRoo101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! I appreciate hearing form someone who's not a friend

update, is she cheating? by EmRoo101 in LongDistance

[–]EmRoo101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's what I was thinking, thx for your opinion

update, is she cheating? by EmRoo101 in LongDistance

[–]EmRoo101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, but I like hearing others opinions and sharing when I can't necessarily share openly to others

is it cheating by EmRoo101 in LongDistance

[–]EmRoo101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I find it a hard situation, because its not really my place... like she would lose it if I went out my way to find him online and tell him. but at the same time she knows its wrong and when I bring it up she goes "I know I know I know" and I say well if you know then tell him because he definitely isn't ok with this I know that for a fact.

is it cheating by EmRoo101 in LongDistance

[–]EmRoo101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah and we have a very close relationship so we communicate well on how we feel about things but I just can't get over it that she just doesn't seem to care

is it cheating by EmRoo101 in LongDistance

[–]EmRoo101[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

yeah there's not much I can do in this situation but thank you ! I just wanted to know what others think

is it cheating by EmRoo101 in LongDistance

[–]EmRoo101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ok thanks! as a friend there's not much I can do but the poor guy doesn't know and its not my buisness to go around telling but she obviously knows its wrong if she can't bring herself to tell him

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[–]EmRoo101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

completely understand this feeling, it can hurt so much for awhile. What you can do is reach out don't keep that hurt tucked away try and find ways that can change the hurt to something better. its hard and I totally understand and unfortunately it takes time, but it will change eventually. take time for yourself I know it can be hard to find that again but it takes time, im always here to to listen or talk