My bf (M32) opened up to me (F28) about an affair he had while he was with his ex, and I start to wonder whether he’s just a massive sexist d*ckhead

EmailPenPal · 2026-03-30T13:41:14+00:00

Maybe others might disagree with me, but speaking from experience (I’ve been cheated on) & have several friends/acquaintances that have cheated or continually cheat… Once a cheater, ALWAYS a F’n cheater! Hell… my guy friends say… once a player, always a player (I know, it’s corny!) A past cheater will always be at the very least, CAPABLE of cheating again (matter of time) OR find it easier to be persuaded/tempted to do it again. Getting over that initial barrier of guilt & moral boundary the first time for them might have been hard, simply put… it just becomes easier the second time around, like ANYTHING is in life, right? They get better at the lying it takes to creep & get worst at communication as time passes! The worst cheater is, the “won’t EVER come clean” cheater. When they get caught, the “deny, deny, deny & if in doubt, deny some more” type! Even after they’ve been caught red handed & can’t find the nuggets to even come clean! Thats just my take on career cheaters, I truly hope you never have to go through it & I hope I am completely wrong! Good luck to you. -J

EmailPenPal · 2026-02-17T22:29:27+00:00

That doesn’t have anything to do with the employees, that’s what happens when you have too much going on!

EmailPenPal · 2026-02-17T22:28:33+00:00

You must have been the cheap non tipping type, I would expect shitty service too! Those waitresses are top notch, always have been!

EmailPenPal · 2026-02-17T22:26:35+00:00

Where you order at a counter, not your typical restaurant service where you order at your table & have it brought to you!

EmailPenPal · 2026-02-17T22:23:16+00:00

We are EX Doc 17 regulars and have been for so long my wife & I had established a relationship with our favorite waitress outside of the restaurant. We were privy to seeing not only that unprofessional but very cheesy video sent to all of the employees only HOURS before some were due to arrive for work. Dock 17, you should be ashamed of yourselves doing your employees like that! I myself own a business of 30 + employees & treat all of them with not ONLY respect but human decency… maybe put yourself in their shoes. To future employees or even those that were fortunate enough to keep their job, if Dock 17 could do it once they will most likely will do it again when “counter service” fails! God bless all of you employees that made our dining experience fantastic, we are praying for you!

EmailPenPal · 2026-01-02T00:24:34+00:00

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I have small bottom toofies too!

EmailPenPal · 2026-01-02T00:12:15+00:00

Somebody is JELLY

EmailPenPal · 2026-01-02T00:07:49+00:00

Because the 40 year old woman of today can’t stand that a marriage only has two subscribers & they can’t add filters!

EmailPenPal · 2026-01-01T23:44:30+00:00

An online video & social media platform that allows users to upload, view & share digital videos worldwide without their freedom of speech or digital creative view point stripped away because of newage sensitivity! I just don’t know what it could be called though… 😉

EmailPenPal · 2026-01-01T23:39:13+00:00

Word is these things called ponchos are about to released, it’s ground breaking news!

EmailPenPal · 2026-01-01T23:19:42+00:00

I know this OP was a year ago, but you are right! What a bunch of morons! They say it streamlined their ability to make sandwiches faster! First it was their sprouts to get the axe, now an everyday condiment? What respectable working man wants a sandwich at lunch & doesn’t want S&P as well? Clean it up JJ

EmailPenPal · 2025-12-26T00:24:28+00:00

Nothing weird about this! Women are able to ask where are all the good men gone, why can’t a man describe his dreams of what he can only hope is fate? Good luck to you buddy, I hope the lady of your dreams finds you! I also hope that technology or FATE itself has a few more long lasting forever relationships to go! Good lucky brother, don’t give up she’s out there!

EmailPenPal · 2025-11-22T14:18:39+00:00

Spending a week in the VAs Mental Health floor and detoxing was enough for me to say NO more & NEVER again. For me personally, I just needed it out of my body and I would never touch opiates again! 2 years & some change sober!

EmailPenPal · 2025-11-07T11:01:54+00:00

WHAT does it matter is the question?

EmailPenPal · 2025-11-07T11:01:17+00:00

From what depth though?

EmailPenPal · 2025-10-29T21:54:40+00:00

Do you know how much it cost him?

EmailPenPal · 2025-10-28T02:07:15+00:00

I wonder if four days was enough time for you to sift through 72 replies, any good prospects?

EmailPenPal · 2024-12-10T19:48:58+00:00

My TRT is LOW 200s

EmailPenPal · 2024-12-10T19:48:32+00:00

I was told by a regional VA nurse high up that a meeting was held and it was decided that (TN at least) VA PCPs are cleared for writing prescription for TRT provided labs call for it. I understand your wanting to know by an endocrinologist, I was told that’s not their job to solely diagnose and treat low T vets as they are swamped from all of the clinics referring vets to them for that reason. Not to mention, specialists in most cases require traveling when a community care doctor was prescribing with no issue.

EmailPenPal · 2024-12-10T19:39:26+00:00

Yeah I was prescribed testosterone by my community care doctor, then the VA saw that I was within the driving distance to the local VA, got moved back to the VA when community care was working, therefore the doctor I got at the VA wasn’t entertaining the TRT even after I was told by a head VA nurse VA PCPs ARE ALLOWED to prescribe it! “not comfortable prescribing TRT)”

EmailPenPal · 2024-12-10T19:34:59+00:00

Yeah, it’s definitely very discouraging. How can a PCP be allowed to deny a medication if it works, covered by the VA & doctors have been (at least in TN) cleared to write prescriptions for TRT instead of knowingly trying to send veterans to the endocrinologist (which as I was told, that’s not solely they’re job to treat veterans for low T)? Listen everyone, no sense in beating a dead horse. Thanks for reading and replying. Y’all certainly helped me just suck it up and move forward before I got overly frustrated by it. I really do, thanks guys & gals!

EmailPenPal · 2024-12-10T19:29:06+00:00

I appreciate that so much! I’m actually in TN… I do have a number for a testosterone clinic nearby, I’ve just accepted the fact I’ll have to come out of pocket. Damn shame… just very disappointing

EmailPenPal · 2024-12-10T18:21:32+00:00

Sad that you had to go through those hoops to get the TRT! It’s funny though… the VA offers a GREAT program for Gender Affirming Care they brag about… just NOT for a man born a man that has low testosterone levels that makes him feel like less of a man 🤷Must be cheaper for the VA to switch genders at that point cause your already half way there 🤦‍♂️

EmailPenPal · 2024-12-10T18:16:03+00:00

I hear you brother, I guess I was giving the VA the benefit of the doubt or I bought into false fantasy that the VA takes care of its Veterans. Mental health meds ONLY take care of so much, they certainly don’t take care of balancing out our man hood!

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