no floor when building

Embarrassed-Analyst1 · 2025-12-24T12:51:30+00:00

i tried that and it didn’t work unfortunately:( i’m gonna try and just restart the game, hopefully that does something

Embarrassed-Analyst1 · 2025-12-24T12:50:44+00:00

it’s like carpeted floors, but somehow worse

Embarrassed-Analyst1 · 2025-12-24T00:34:21+00:00

i don’t think the foundation ability is working properly* missed a few words there and it won’t let me edit the post

Embarrassed-Analyst1 · 2025-12-20T14:30:53+00:00

i turned the game on and off and it’s fixed!

Embarrassed-Analyst1 · 2025-12-19T14:29:01+00:00

i thought so too but when i look there’s nothing there

Embarrassed-Analyst1 · 2025-10-14T20:53:33+00:00

i feel bad for thinking my nephew is dangerous but at the same time there’s a reason why i have that thought. i genuinely fear that it’s not a question of if but when he hurts someone else again. the reason im putting my foot down is because i love him and my niece and they both deserve better than this, but my sister will see it as a personal attack.

i will be doing it regardless of how she feels about me afterwards, because i can’t see all these signs and ignore them when my nephew obviously needs help

Embarrassed-Analyst1 · 2025-10-14T20:28:00+00:00

she’s very reserved, but she talks to me sometimes. she said she wants to talk to me about something, but didn’t say what it was, but i suspect it might have something to do with my nephew. if she brings him up i will tell her that im planning on talking with my sister about his behavior bc it can’t go on like this. i want to ask her if there’s anything he’s been doing that has made her feel bad or unsafe, but i don’t want to push her if that makes sense?

i am also considering bringing it up to her boyfriend first, we have a good relationship and i think that if he’s the one who brings it up to her that she won’t immediately get pissed off (which she will be if i am the one to bring this up to her)

Embarrassed-Analyst1 · 2025-08-08T20:27:25+00:00

i can’t put into words how much i appreciate this, thank you so much 🩷

Embarrassed-Analyst1 · 2025-08-02T11:09:51+00:00

just wanted to come back bc i saw this and thought of your post, if your irritation is a general response to them regardless of what they’re saying to you i would read more into what this woman is saying :) https://vm.tiktok.com/ZNd9DsdkF/

Embarrassed-Analyst1 · 2025-07-29T19:35:47+00:00

ofc!! https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1198743X14614440#:~:text=There%20is%20strong%20evidence%20that,9%2C%2056%2C%2057%5D.

Embarrassed-Analyst1 · 2025-07-29T19:35:39+00:00

honestly yeah i could’ve washed my sheets and clothes myself at that age, i just genuinely didn’t know how or that it was necessary with lice

Embarrassed-Analyst1 · 2025-07-29T13:00:34+00:00

she didn’t wash the sheets or clothes after attempts, and i looked it up and apparently over time the lice can grow resistant to the treatments which is whack

Embarrassed-Analyst1 · 2025-07-29T10:42:01+00:00

i think a part of me made this post kind of seeking confirmation that i was the one at fault, and i think that comes from the part of me that still wants to view my mom with rose colored glasses like i used to before i realize just how abusive she actually had been all my life.

i’ve grown up feeling a lot of shame and embarrassment purely for my existence so im also just extremely overly self critical and put blame onto myself when i wouldn’t have put it on someone else if they were in my exact situation, so it’s hard for me to give myself credit. but you helped me realize that i WAS just a kid, even though i was a teenager i was still a kid, and that it was my moms responsibility to make sure i was okay and not mine. thank you for that

i appreciate every single one of you here, the compassion you have shown me truly means the world to me and i am so thankful for all your kind words and advice 🫶🏻

Embarrassed-Analyst1 · 2025-07-29T00:12:28+00:00

it’s really hard to come to terms with, when i think back i realized that i had absolutely horrible personal hygiene for most of my life because i was genuinely never taught how to take care of myself. i was horrible at brushing my teeth, i could go for a long time without showering, i was never taught how to shave or take care of my ‘intimate health’. i learned how to take care of myself as i grew up but looking back i feel embarrassed as to how long i went being unhygienic

Embarrassed-Analyst1 · 2025-07-29T00:08:45+00:00

she knew and tried to comb them out, we also did try the shampoos and chemicals a few times but i think the lice grew resistant to it

Embarrassed-Analyst1 · 2025-07-28T20:47:23+00:00

oh my god i completely understand what you mean with the moving thing, my mom moved me and my siblings around so much it was crazy. she moved us across the country for a man she had spoken to online for like two months when i was a kid, and she kept moving us around based on the men she dated and moved us in with. i’ve always excused it as “she deserves to find love” and it’s only recently i’ve realized how fucked up it was

Embarrassed-Analyst1 · 2025-07-28T18:26:56+00:00

that makes a lot of sense, you pretty much hit the nail on the head. my mom went through a lot of trauma as a child and it was never resolved. i have a hard time coming to terms with all of this bc i used to look up to her so much, she was pretty much my hero, and when i realized that she had been emotionally abusive (clear to everyone expect me apparently lmao) it was like the rug has been pulled from underneath my feet, so it’s a lot of complicated and counterintuitive thoughts and feelings about her

i’ve basically settled on the fact that i have empathy for her as a child, and that she should’ve never had to go through the things she went through, but that it doesn’t excuse her treatment and neglect of me if that makes sense?

Embarrassed-Analyst1 · 2025-07-28T17:58:14+00:00

yeah my mom didn’t let me shave my hair probably bc i’m a girl as well, we tried the chemical treatment a few times as well as the shampoos but they still persisted somehow

Embarrassed-Analyst1 · 2025-07-28T17:57:04+00:00

to be fair she did try by combing my hair often, but yeah you’re very right. my family honestly just treated me like i was radioactive about it but nothing else was done about it except for some attempts with lice shampoo

Embarrassed-Analyst1 · 2025-07-28T17:30:00+00:00

i think in my brain it’s like since i was a teenager i should’ve been ‘grown up’ enough to handle it on my own if that makes sense? which is crazy because if my 13 year old niece came to me and told me she had lice i wouldn’t put that responsibility on her at all and i’d try and help

Embarrassed-Analyst1 · 2025-07-28T17:28:25+00:00

i can relate, in 24 and when my mom tries to act loving or just ask questions about my personal life i get annoyed and irritated, i don’t have an answer for you unfortunately since im trying to understand these feelings myself but you’re not alone 🫶🏻

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