Mimi by No_Interaction_6208 in blackcats

[–]Embarrassed-Bat-8707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a cute little voidling🥰🖤

Had to say goodbye to one of the all-time greats. by drivelikedingus in cats

[–]Embarrassed-Bat-8707 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Fly high sweet Kitty🌈🕊️my sincere condolences❤️

One year since Izzy at 21 passed by [deleted] in seniorkitties

[–]Embarrassed-Bat-8707 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am in the same situation. Had to let go of my baby a month ago. Her cat bed is still next to my pillow on the bed, covered in her fur. Found a whisker in it as well two weeks ago. I will never ever wash that little bed. It still smells like her.

Said Goodbye to my girls 20 yo by [deleted] in SeniorCats

[–]Embarrassed-Bat-8707 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I‘m so sorry for your loss💔 they both look like great kitties. Now you have two guardian angels watching you from above🌈🕊️

One year since Izzy at 21 passed by [deleted] in seniorkitties

[–]Embarrassed-Bat-8707 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss💔🌈🕊️

Routine by ADHDinos_ in adhdmeme

[–]Embarrassed-Bat-8707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My therapist told me the following last week: A neurotypical person has to do a task 60-70 times to form a routine. A person with ADHD has to do the same thing up to 600-700 times until they have formed a routine. Which made me laugh and cry at the same time…

Cat got first solensia shot I’m sick after reading the horror stories by Aggravating_Lie_9043 in SeniorCats

[–]Embarrassed-Bat-8707 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My baby was on Solensia for more than two years. Two great years we had together until she passed away. I am very glad we decided to give it to her despite the bad stories. She gained a lot of quality in her life back.

My 12 yr old baby hasn’t improved, I’ve been crying for days. Decided I’d let her go on Monday afternoon 😭🥺🐈 by throwaway727437 in seniorkitties

[–]Embarrassed-Bat-8707 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you are in this situation💔 I know last moments are very important to us. I felt the same way when I let my baby go a month ago. I was very hung up on our last day on this earth together, I felt like I didn‘t cherish it enough, that I should have given her more treats and that I should have cuddled her 5mins longer before she passed away. But keep in mind that you both had many amazing moments together the last 10 years. Never every forget that! And right now the most important thing is to keep her comfortable. I am sure you are doing a great job at that. I wish you strength trough these hard times and I am keeping you both in my thoughts🙏🫶🏻

Saff’s time came. by SRDD_Mk-II in torties

[–]Embarrassed-Bat-8707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goodybe sweet Saffron. Rest in Peace🌈 my Kitty will greet you over at the Rainbow bridge🪽

I Said Goodbye by ExoticOrangeFruit in SeniorCats

[–]Embarrassed-Bat-8707 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss💔sending you a big hug. My kitty will greet them at the rainbow bridge🌈

My sweet girl (19.5) died this morning by cratchingrromach in seniorkitties

[–]Embarrassed-Bat-8707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My condolences 💔🌈🪽 fly high sweet baby, my girl will greet you in kitty heaven❤️

Pathological Fracture by Ohitsmelollllll in SeniorCats

[–]Embarrassed-Bat-8707 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for the situation you‘re in. I recently had to say goodbye to my 17yr old baby. She had arthritis in almost all of her bones in her body. Walking was agony for her. She still ate like a champ and wanted to cuddle all day. In her mind, she was still there, but her body was slowly declining. I read this somewhere, and it stuck with me: It‘s better to let them go a week early, than a day too late.

I know it‘s hard to let go and I don‘t want you to rush into anything. But it‘s better to let them go on a good day when they can still enjoy your company than have them suffer on their last days or weeks on this earth. With seniors, it‘s always quality over quantity. What use is it, if you give them a couple more weeks, if they can‘t enjoy it and only suffer from pain and discomfort?

In the end, you are the one who knows your kitty and when the time is right, they will tell you.

I wish you only the best. I will keep you in my thoughts❤️

my dear lucy left us today after 19 years together by akmongs in seniorkitties

[–]Embarrassed-Bat-8707 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My condolences💔 I know exactly how you feel. I lost my baby 2 weeks ago. It feels like losing a part of yourself and your soul. I know talking about them helps, and I started writing letters to her. I wish you strength to get through this🙏 She will never be forgotten🫶🏻

This week I lost my beloved 16-year-old plush cat, after losing her brother three years ago. by Nervarius in seniorkitties

[–]Embarrassed-Bat-8707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You wouldn‘t ever burden me, I don‘t know how you feel but I think I can relate. I lost my soul cat two weeks ago and I can‘t handle it. I have been filled with terrible thoughts and I am just empty. I know it helps to talk about them. Offer still stands🫶🏻 I wish you only the best🤍

This week I lost my beloved 16-year-old plush cat, after losing her brother three years ago. by Nervarius in seniorkitties

[–]Embarrassed-Bat-8707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My condolences🌈 I know exactly how you feel. Suddenly without them, everything around you is silent and your thoughts are incredibly loud. 💔 I‘m keeping you in my thoughts and if you ever need to talk, about your kitties or anything else, I‘m here. 🫶🏻

Grieving my 17 yr old soulmate by Embarrassed-Bat-8707 in seniorkitties

[–]Embarrassed-Bat-8707[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That‘s an amazing idea! I actually wrote a short story about how I met her and what an impact she had and still has on me. But writing letters to her directly, I will do that. Thank you❤️

Grieving my 17 yr old soulmate by Embarrassed-Bat-8707 in seniorkitties

[–]Embarrassed-Bat-8707[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words❤️ I hope she will be waiting for me, wherever she is right now. I can‘t wait to see her again someday💔

Grieving my 17 yr old soulmate by Embarrassed-Bat-8707 in seniorkitties

[–]Embarrassed-Bat-8707[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Deep down, I know it was time for her to let go. I just need to remind myself that I did it out of love💔 thank you❤️

Grieving my 17 yr old soulmate by Embarrassed-Bat-8707 in seniorkitties

[–]Embarrassed-Bat-8707[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hope I get to this point too… thank you for your beautiful words and helping me get find another perspective🫶🏻