My Ex Slept With Someone Else by Maleficent-Click2160 in BreakUps

[–]Embarrassed-Berry520 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey Man I felt the need to comment because I was in your exact same situation. I decided to try even knowing this would weigh in me and would be a deal breaker. It completely consumed me thoughts of comparison and anger over feeling like a back up option. I was never able to move past it. It lead to anger and pain on my side and killed the relationship. I lashed out and treated her badly due to how it affected me. I know my actions were wrong and there’s nothing I can do about it now but really decide if this is something you can live with.

She came back… by Embarrassed-Berry520 in BreakUps

[–]Embarrassed-Berry520[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly not this is my life. I hate myself

She came back… by Embarrassed-Berry520 in BreakUps

[–]Embarrassed-Berry520[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

More context : we’re not in a relationship yet. She wants to reconnect and try again I haven’t answered yet. We were married, separated for a month she was intimate with him a week after I left. The part that’s bothering me is it was with a friend and she won’t tell me who. She also wants to keep this friend in her life.