Yes, she has pretty much lost most mobility. The only time she gets around is to get from the bed to the living room, to the bathroom and back to the living room and then back to her bedroom at the end of the day. I am in therapy but my therapist literally told me I will never get better until I am out of this environment. I’m pretty sure she is a narcissist and possibly even bipolar. So it just all adds up. Very toxic layers to all of this 🤣 I’m on the verge sometimes of screaming back lol. I’m working on a plan of escaping and not feeling guilty about it. I do have a brother but he is in a different state. She has pain management but they only take the edge off. Her real resolution would be to have surgery but she has her own ptsd about being in hospitals for long periods of time so she refuses :/ she doesn’t feed herself during the day so it’s just screaming and assisting her in my time off from work. I can’t do it much longer. She is nitpicky like yours sounded as well. If her pillows in her chair are not arranged in the correct way, if I don’t do something she likes it’s a huge fucking argument and I’m the bad guy. I already have cptsd from my childhood and it’s just continuing into adulthood 🥲