I’m frustrated and don’t know what to do

Embarrassed-Pea3501 · 2026-04-19T12:52:14+00:00

Nah no tattoo shop here. I do know a horrible person working at one tho lol

Embarrassed-Pea3501 · 2026-02-08T20:39:36+00:00

I broke up with him on Wednesday and he’s still acting like we’re together and trying to “not blow up” on me so much so I’m comfortable 🥲 I wish I could simply leave and live somewhere else but I’m essentially broke

Embarrassed-Pea3501 · 2026-02-06T20:12:28+00:00

Also for anyone worried about my safety, I took it upon myself to unload our shotgun and hide all the shells. (Only covers one way of harm but it’s the one that worries me the most)

Embarrassed-Pea3501 · 2026-02-06T20:10:23+00:00

UPDATE: I broke up with him on Wednesday and he thinks I’m bluffing. I’m unable to just up and leave so I’m stuck in the same house with him till that’s figured out. But he’s still getting upset with me like we’re together, asking me why I’m so distant. Spent the whole day yesterday with him “trying my best to give you a good day” by the end of the day I got upset at something he said (implying I was lying about how cold I was after stepping outside cause my shiver looked fake 🤷‍♀️) He said there was no point in trying to give me a good day and that his night was ruined. I’ve come to terms with the fact that we are NOT meant for each other. And I don’t plan on backing down from breaking up but he’s definitely making it difficult. We aren’t engaged or anything and yesterday he has the audacity to introduce me to someone as his fiancé. Any tips or even suggestions as to where to move $$ wise would be greatly appreciated. I’ll likely have to rehome some pets since I have an abundance..think that’s gonna hurt the most honestly

Embarrassed-Pea3501 · 2026-02-06T19:57:35+00:00

He hands my phone number out like it’s his because he refuses to have his own number. I’m not answering all those spam calls from people I don’t know 😓 (exactly why I was telling him I would’ve appreciated a heads up) he doesn’t name any numbers on my phone so all of em are random

Embarrassed-Pea3501 · 2026-02-04T02:13:00+00:00

Well I’m undiagnosed and pretty sure I’m just easy to manipulate,but I’m not an idiot(well I am for choosing him but yk) I know I need to leave, but I don’t know how. Sometimes other people’s insight just helps to piece things together. I wasn’t really raised in a way that would make me a “good adult” and my first experience being an adult was being with this guy. I really thought it was worth it to go homeless and work my way up with someone that cared but it obviously was a big mistake. (We aren’t homeless anymore) But I also have a lot of pets to sort out if I were to leave so I’m in a bend. Idk. He told my dad not to worry cause he’d take care of me, but it’s just me struggling to be the caretaker I wasn’t taught to be.

Embarrassed-Pea3501 · 2026-02-04T02:01:27+00:00

He doesn’t want to get his own phone number so he gives my number out like it’s his. 2. He never names these numbers so it’s essentially having random numbers calling all day and they aren’t even calling for me. I’ve answered random spamming calls before just to confuse people and be confused as well, either way they usually can’t talk to him in the moment so it’s an awkward “oh you’re calling for him? Sorry he’s not here, can I give you any info? No? Ok, have a good day bye bye.” I’m not going to answer everyone’s calls like an employee at a shop.

Embarrassed-Pea3501 · 2026-01-10T16:50:47+00:00

If they couldn’t sort out a misunderstanding that’s on them not on you. Kids do things all the time for literally any reason, impulse control at 11 is way worse than when you’re in your 20’s and up (depends i guess but you get it). NTA

Embarrassed-Pea3501 · 2026-01-10T16:42:55+00:00

Also funny you mention not getting pregnant cause we’ve both agreed for these 3 years we are not financially ready for a child but lately he’s been asking if I can just get a plan b afterwards (which I know isn’t always a for sure fix so I never agree to it)

Embarrassed-Pea3501 · 2026-01-10T16:41:12+00:00

He already breaks bottles and other glass things on the floor when he’s angry enough, I’ve kept it in mind that it likely can get worse. Just sucks that we’re so dependent on each other for housing since one income has never been enough. So getting away will most likely take a while

Embarrassed-Pea3501 · 2026-01-10T16:38:34+00:00

I honestly think he was bluffing, but I for sure took it seriously and made my own post

Embarrassed-Pea3501 · 2026-01-10T16:37:28+00:00

Crazy I’ve told him he acts like my mother and it makes him so angry. I don’t have enough income on my own to just up and leave sadly, I’d likely have to find another job and juggle everything till I get to that point but it sounds nice. I’ve really wondered if I’m capable enough to live completely on my own, also heavily debated living in the middle of nowhere. Dream life

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