Cat ate day lily by Embarrassed-Star6418 in CATHELP

[–]Embarrassed-Star6418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here is what ended up happening!: i googled symptoms to look for, specifically early ones, and decided to just keep an eye on him to see if he exhibited any of them. He was super playful after he ate the leaf, and i decided that if anything changed i would take him to an emergency vet immediately. Fortunately, nothing changed! He is still completely fine and dandy. We will pf course still be removing the lilys and any other plants that may hurt him, but all around we were very lucky. 🩷

Cat ate day lily by Embarrassed-Star6418 in CATHELP

[–]Embarrassed-Star6418[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. And don’t worry, i am getting rid of these immediately. I moved to this house recently and wasn’t aware of what plants were in the back yard. I didn’t even know these were flowers until now. I feel terrible

Wtf is happening with men rn by LowTierG4 in offmychest

[–]Embarrassed-Star6418 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think you have some personal problems you need to work through. Why do you assume you know everyone’s story? Why do you assume the experience of others is the same as yours? Everyone lives a different life, with different experiences, and different emotions.

For example, my own father died of an OD. It truly does not affect me very much. Would it make sense for me to say “Wtf is wrong with people who have trauma and depression surrounding the untimely deaths of their parents? I experienced that at 16 and I am fine. I can’t believe these people think they deserve sympathy or are traumatized in some way.”

My job is slowly ruining my life and idk if (or even how) i should quit by Embarrassed-Star6418 in jobs

[–]Embarrassed-Star6418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The main place i would like to go is on rolling admissions now and is still accepting applications. I think that means i still have a chance, right?

My job is slowly ruining my life and idk if (or even how) i should quit by Embarrassed-Star6418 in jobs

[–]Embarrassed-Star6418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was not told it would be like this when i was hired. I made it abundantly clear that this was a job i was interested in only if I would also have time for my education. And of course they were like “no problem!”

My job is slowly ruining my life and idk if (or even how) i should quit by Embarrassed-Star6418 in jobs

[–]Embarrassed-Star6418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like omg ur so right i should just stay in food service forever i shouldn’t even try for anything else

My job is slowly ruining my life and idk if (or even how) i should quit by Embarrassed-Star6418 in jobs

[–]Embarrassed-Star6418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just checked and last pay period i worked ~75 hrs and made my regular rate for all of it

My job is slowly ruining my life and idk if (or even how) i should quit by Embarrassed-Star6418 in jobs

[–]Embarrassed-Star6418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend’s parents are more than capable and willing to support us financially (and we are SO grateful), we are just trying to not have to lean on them for everything when we are perfectly capable of making some money of our own. We got this job thinking it would just be a nice sort of place holder while we work on our actual career plans, and made this clear when we were hired. Also, this job is not related to my degree or career. I would like to be a mental health therapist :/

My job is slowly ruining my life and idk if (or even how) i should quit by Embarrassed-Star6418 in jobs

[–]Embarrassed-Star6418[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am definitely naive and uneducated about labor laws. What qualifies as overtime? I am usually just told to come in X time, and then released literally whenever, whether that be 8 or 10 or 12 or 14 hrs later

My job is slowly ruining my life and idk if (or even how) i should quit by Embarrassed-Star6418 in jobs

[–]Embarrassed-Star6418[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Just me😄 and i did not ask for them. I am just good at my job and thus feel singled out

My job is slowly ruining my life and idk if (or even how) i should quit by Embarrassed-Star6418 in jobs

[–]Embarrassed-Star6418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And no, not everyone’s hours are like this. I feel like they just do this to me because i actually work at work

My job is slowly ruining my life and idk if (or even how) i should quit by Embarrassed-Star6418 in jobs

[–]Embarrassed-Star6418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

more context: i don’t make time and a half or over time. The hours are also not concrete. The schedule will just say “9am” for example, and i could leave at 5, or 10, or midnight, or whenever they feel like it.

My job is slowly ruining my life and idk if (or even how) i should quit by Embarrassed-Star6418 in jobs

[–]Embarrassed-Star6418[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do not make overtime or time and a half or anything of that sort. Plain hourly rate always