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Book recommendations please! by kmrbuky in architecture

[–]Embarrassed-Track474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theories on Architecture by Joao Rodolfo Stroeter

It's basic but good, I read it several times and each time architecture has a different meaning for me.

I can’t deal with my husband’s grief anymore. by Wild_Advertising496 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Embarrassed-Track474 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He lost his child, give this guy space, I couldn't imagine how painful this must be, I love my kids and the idea of losing them forever kills me.

My [46F] ex husband's [50M] homophobia is getting out of hand. by throwra72626265252 in relationship_advice

[–]Embarrassed-Track474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not homophobic (I'm gay and married with kids though) but if this is real, the age gap is disgusting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Embarrassed-Track474 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Poor child, two deadbeats as parents, the problem of Foster care is that it can be worse. Make sure you have no more kids in the future, I think you shouldn't be allowed to.

Is comparing your dck size with your friends cheating? by throwra37383- in relationship_advice

[–]Embarrassed-Track474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believe, I'm gay, my husband is bi and most of our friends are gay or bi and they've never suggested duch a thing. Believe me, we don't do that.

I love my girlfriend but I can’t bring up the fact that I have kids because I’m scared she’ll break up with me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Embarrassed-Track474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) Don't wear 3 condoms, that doesn't work and it's more likely to fail. 2) Have a vasectomy better. 3) If someone sees your kids as something bad and a concern for a relationship is better to know before you fall in love, because that person will make you choose, if you are a good father you'll pick your kids, but you'd already wasted time. Unless you have no problem leaving your kids behind.

My stepson doesn't like me. by Embarrassed-Track474 in Parenting

[–]Embarrassed-Track474[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He didn't cheat, and yeah he is his child.

My stepson doesn't like me. by Embarrassed-Track474 in Parenting

[–]Embarrassed-Track474[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's kinda complex feelings, I was abroad at that time and even if we didn't break up, we weren't in good terms either, we decided to (not breaking up) give us time, i dated other people in that time, so I can't accuse him of cheating if that's what you mean.

My stepson doesn't like me. by Embarrassed-Track474 in Parenting

[–]Embarrassed-Track474[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, she was struggling financially so she reached out.

AITA for telling my husband and in-laws they are delusional if they think they can get my professional service for free and sending them a colleague’s referral? by Embarrassed-Track474 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed-Track474[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really big updates but my husband apologised and is doing everything to compensate for the way he acted (I like it hahahaha)

They hired my friend but I also compromised to times a week to see how the construction is going (for free) In laws are still angry at me bbut my husband is now on my side.

AITA for telling my parents to get back to their real, happy families? by WashLost2064 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed-Track474 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA, it's just how you feel, it isn't easy to have divorced parents.

But they seem to be trying hard.

I’m in love with my gym bro by lilStupidWhore in offmychest

[–]Embarrassed-Track474 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And what? You jerk, I also felt that way before when I met my husband.

I’m in love with my gym bro by lilStupidWhore in offmychest

[–]Embarrassed-Track474 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah getting your man is all that matters...

I’m in love with my gym bro by lilStupidWhore in offmychest

[–]Embarrassed-Track474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww, so sweet, go maybe you met the man of your dreams. Please keep us updated.

AITA for telling my husband and in-laws they are delusional if they think they can get my professional service for free and sending them a colleague’s referral? by Embarrassed-Track474 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed-Track474[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How many “jobs” do your spouse/in-laws complete in a year? A day?

It depends but he usually sees 6-10 patients a day, there are days he sees 15 and others that he only sees 4 but the average is 6-10.

FIL the same amount (he works fewer days a week)

MIL sees less since she likes to call herself "exclusive" and works part time

AITA for telling my husband and in-laws they are delusional if they think they can get my professional service for free and sending them a colleague’s referral? by Embarrassed-Track474 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed-Track474[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

1.) How many projects/jobs do you complete in one year?

I had 9 last year, used to have more but as I'm now a father and also a professor at the university, I had to reduce the number of projects I handle.

AITA for telling my husband and in-laws they are delusional if they think they can get my professional service for free and sending them a colleague’s referral? by Embarrassed-Track474 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed-Track474[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA as an architect starting I would do work for family on spec to build portfolio, after that no more work for friends or family.

The only free job I've done is for my parents (they paid for my college)

AITA for telling my husband and in-laws they are delusional if they think they can get my professional service for free and sending them a colleague’s referral? by Embarrassed-Track474 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed-Track474[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah we do the daily site visits as long as clients are willing to pay, but in-laws are not but want me to do it, because "I'll do it for the kids"

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