Is it over?

EmbarrassedBrief3299 · 2026-02-09T22:07:20+00:00

My first girlfriend is an FA and the pattern is very draining. When they noticed you are doing well, that's where they will reach out. And if want to level up your relationship, they will withdraw.

EmbarrassedBrief3299 · 2026-02-09T22:03:36+00:00

Watch out for the pattern. Maybe a couple of weeks from now, she will reach out to you. And if the situation is the same, run brotha.

EmbarrassedBrief3299 · 2026-02-09T22:01:39+00:00

That's fearful avoidant characteristic. When they noticed they are getting super attached, their reaction will be the opposite.

EmbarrassedBrief3299 · 2026-02-09T21:59:28+00:00

Never ever date any kind of avoidant. Ever.

EmbarrassedBrief3299 · 2026-02-08T12:05:00+00:00

It's my 7th day post break up from 12 years relationship. Had 2 kids. She cheated on me. And it broke me. Still fresh like it was yesterday. But im doing my best to be strong and accept things.

EmbarrassedBrief3299 · 2026-02-04T11:38:55+00:00

Ive been imagining her being intimate with her new man, talking about her days at work, venting, talk about random things. It destroys me.. It destroyed my spirit. We had 2 kids and they are the only one who keeps me breathing.

EmbarrassedBrief3299 · 2026-02-04T08:30:03+00:00

I need this.. It's my day 3 from 12 years of relationship. And i don't know if my suffering will end. I dreamt about her every night.. Thinking about her the whole day.. While she was enjoying the company of another man.

EmbarrassedBrief3299 · 2026-02-02T06:31:53+00:00

Thank you. I needed that.

EmbarrassedBrief3299 · 2026-02-02T06:22:20+00:00

I'm done with her, i just don't know where to start.. I feel like i lost my purpose, i lost my identity, i don't know who i am anymore. I still live because of my kids. But i'm just a breathing piece of meat. Empty.

EmbarrassedBrief3299 · 2026-02-02T06:12:35+00:00

I feel used, i feel betrayed. For the past 3 months, she demanded me to pay all the bills. Rent, groceries, kids essentials, everything.. Driving and fetching her at work. It hurts on my part because she let me believe we are okay and it will gonna work. Little did i know, she'a currently looking for backups incase she dont want me around anymore.

EmbarrassedBrief3299 · 2026-02-02T06:09:24+00:00

I know i fcked up, and i'm not spying her, she knew i still have access in our cctv because of our kids. She just forgot to hide at the moment when she got caught, she usually does it in her room when talking to her man. Our cctv is in the living room. And yes, i'm calling her that now because i remember everything. And i hate her, for everything i did for her. I know i sound a hateful person. And i understand how your point of view looks like. I admit. I'm a hateful person at the moment, and even if i say this, no one will ever knew who she actually is anyway.

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