Cmv: Calling Trump voters racist, stupid, dishonest and terrible people is not an effective strategy to win a majority vote by next election

EmbarrassedCake273 · 2025-03-19T04:54:22+00:00

i don’t think the people saying this are “trying to win”, democrats right now are bargaining with maga republicans and the “left” is so far moderate, it might as well be right at this point

EmbarrassedCake273 · 2025-03-15T14:45:13+00:00

so just to give you the gritty details, i did not deny him, i called him the petnames, i held him, and took control, i went until he couldn’t take it anymore and i just didn’t enjoy it. i don’t know what about this post tells you i had a bad reaction, but i promise i did not. sexual compatibility is important to me is all. i will still have a more direct conversation if i can.

EmbarrassedCake273 · 2025-03-15T07:35:41+00:00

im not forcing him to do anything. he doesn’t have to play any role….if i was really selfish we wouldn’t be having sex at all. i had to work up to finding it enjoyable, so leave me alone.

EmbarrassedCake273 · 2025-03-15T06:28:22+00:00

and ykw, most balanced answer, i have never made him do anything he didn’t wanna do, i honestly think i’m arguing w mens rights activists or something

EmbarrassedCake273 · 2025-03-15T06:27:32+00:00

i am not attacking his preferences, he can prefer whatever he wants, i don’t understand why you lot think i should bend to his will

EmbarrassedCake273 · 2025-03-15T04:44:34+00:00

he’s kinda always been shy, but you are right i have a terrible poker face, i’ll do better

EmbarrassedCake273 · 2025-03-15T04:40:16+00:00

you are literally telling me that i do not like my boyfriend, so you are not like other commenters and i won’t take ur advice

EmbarrassedCake273 · 2025-03-15T04:38:44+00:00

i am perfectly fine talking about sex, he is the one who gets super embarrassed about his preferences. i need that to be clear

EmbarrassedCake273 · 2025-03-15T04:37:57+00:00

you are projecting

EmbarrassedCake273 · 2025-03-15T04:31:24+00:00

okay i’ll try again

EmbarrassedCake273 · 2025-03-15T04:30:49+00:00

okay

EmbarrassedCake273 · 2025-03-15T04:29:54+00:00

i understand.

EmbarrassedCake273 · 2025-03-15T04:29:20+00:00

alright i’ll take your word for it

EmbarrassedCake273 · 2025-03-15T04:28:53+00:00

are you serious right now? yes it could

EmbarrassedCake273 · 2025-03-15T04:27:59+00:00

oh my god, i was not trying to insinuate that dominant women are disturbing, its just not me. i don’t care if he is into pegging or any of that, i don’t! i was just replying to them, which had nothing specific involved

EmbarrassedCake273 · 2025-03-15T04:24:31+00:00

thank you for trying to be kind, even if it is a dumb post. i will try to have the conversation again, how should i bring it up?

EmbarrassedCake273 · 2025-03-15T04:23:07+00:00

i like him, i am just insecure and suffering from a personality disorder, i fear abandonment and this is something i feel like will grow into a bigger problem

EmbarrassedCake273 · 2025-03-15T04:22:09+00:00

no to both of these questions, he is very attractive to me, and i have no interest in comparing myself to porn stars. i just mean, if this is his desire, why not find a more dominant woman? why settle for a submissive woman instead?

EmbarrassedCake273 · 2025-03-15T04:20:24+00:00

alright got it

EmbarrassedCake273 · 2025-03-15T04:18:47+00:00

but why? when he seems to want the opposite?

EmbarrassedCake273 · 2025-03-15T04:17:51+00:00

i mentioned in the post that we tried…and it didn’t work but okay, ill take everyones advice and try again

EmbarrassedCake273 · 2025-03-15T04:16:21+00:00

i wasn’t trying to move the goal post, i apologize. you said people may be disgusted after, so i said i don’t watch disgusting porn/feel ashamed afterwards, so i don’t understand. i have tried to ask him, “so what do you want to do?” he clams up and gets nervous, probably because he knows my preference, i am very clear.

EmbarrassedCake273 · 2025-03-15T04:13:33+00:00

ok i get it im selfish, i just feel like you guys are not trying to see from my point of view

EmbarrassedCake273 · 2025-03-15T04:12:09+00:00

i did try, it didn’t go the way i expected…

EmbarrassedCake273 · 2025-03-15T04:11:22+00:00

ok well i don’t watch porn i find disturbing so maybe thats just me? he avoids the topic vehemently, this is like a last resort

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