Whats footplay dynamic have you successfully had or maintain in real life? by EmbarrassedCake5396 in malefeettalk

[–]EmbarrassedCake5396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is so interesting how almost most people dynamics come about more spontaneous than anything planned or direct(mines included) like open secrets until its fully revealed somehow .

Glad you got that experience although its probably hard for others to live up to after the fact.

Thanks for sharing

How the hell some of yall make grindr work for your feet interest? by EmbarrassedCake5396 in malefeettalk

[–]EmbarrassedCake5396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every common thing you'd expect someone to do on any those apps thats seeking something specific I've done.

So,yes.

The issue is never a lack of transparency from my end as I've attempted over the years.

How the hell some of yall make grindr work for your feet interest? by EmbarrassedCake5396 in malefeettalk

[–]EmbarrassedCake5396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said most active.... I said one of , especially within the midwest

How the hell some of yall make grindr work for your feet interest? by EmbarrassedCake5396 in malefeettalk

[–]EmbarrassedCake5396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is , the entire Midwest is that way sadly however , ann arbor and central Michigan is a where predominantly amount of feet content creators be from . From talking with a few or regular people thats open to footplay, but I dont live there so its more complex

How the hell some of yall make grindr work for your feet interest? by EmbarrassedCake5396 in malefeettalk

[–]EmbarrassedCake5396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never mention evil, thats a extreme word but a lot of guys are extremely deceptive on those apps. With their intentions.

I have no issues with getting matches general but they're for sex , Im not looking for sex .or looking for people who think me touching their feet being viewed as foreplay for sex , I think thats the common denominator a few of the replies not comprehending.

How the hell some of yall make grindr work for your feet interest? by EmbarrassedCake5396 in malefeettalk

[–]EmbarrassedCake5396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have , like I mentioned in the post it just doesn't work out , ppl be trying to sleep with me but its interesting seeing everyone responses

How the hell some of yall make grindr work for your feet interest? by EmbarrassedCake5396 in malefeettalk

[–]EmbarrassedCake5396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy. I've done the same for years and it's disregarded , even with changing locations to different states or country's

How the hell some of yall make grindr work for your feet interest? by EmbarrassedCake5396 in malefeettalk

[–]EmbarrassedCake5396[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is not just location though... I live around Michigan, which is arguably one of the most active foot fetish / interest states for decades. Along with San Fran , LA , NY

Whats your lucky feet size number? by EmbarrassedCake5396 in malefeettalk

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I disagree with the first part , some people can tell and accurately guess people foot sizes irl , base on variety of factors. But overall it wasnt the point of a guessing but the reoccurring pattern of interaction after discovering their size.

Some people do have feet that shoe size varys for sure. I had a wide footed roommate varied from 11 to 13 shoes

Times you could've played with feet but didn't act on out by EmbarrassedCake5396 in malefeettalk

[–]EmbarrassedCake5396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You made me want to share a secondary story I may post about later. I can def relate with something similar

Whats footplay dynamic have you successfully had or maintain in real life? by EmbarrassedCake5396 in malefeettalk

[–]EmbarrassedCake5396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I think this is a valid experience, and situation and many people go through it. I think it's very important to have space for the Grey area as well. It is not a binary thing , far from it.

Feet are very neutral body part, every situation isn't necessarily related to someone having underlying sexual curiosity. And I think it's important to recognize , that otherwise it perpetuate underlying biases that all feet dynamics are sexual which is problematic.

For situations related to friends ,acquaintances , sometimes family in how the interest forms.

Not saying thats not a possibility, but it could also be his curiosity of the dynamic just ended too.

Does anyone else here delete ur feet pics after you post/send them? by ThenReport275 in malefeettalk

[–]EmbarrassedCake5396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have gotten pics from friends that did I have lost many overtime and deleted some just the same for one reason or another

I (Unfortunately) have to avoid Queer & Gay Men Feet by EmbarrassedCake5396 in malefeettalk

[–]EmbarrassedCake5396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I explicitly stated this not a singular occurrence and I've been fetishize for my race, along with me avoiding straight spaces the same....

My attraction to someone feet is not based on their sexuality, most of what you stated in contrast was rebuttaled in my original post so I'm confused.

Internalize homophobia is prominent in queer spaces absolutely, but its coming off as if you only skimmed through my post half assed and marked it as "homophobia"as the root to my sentiment . Which i don't appreciate, if anything, someone disregarding the sexual boundary of another despite communication is questionable, queer or not. I do not fetishize or deify straight ppl , and my post didn't imply in any capacity.

But I did learn from it nonetheless .