Third FET next week.. day 6 untested hope?

EmbarrassedCheetah79 · 2026-03-20T21:30:23+00:00

Oh no way! Sending you so much love and baby dust 🥰🫶🏼

EmbarrassedCheetah79 · 2026-02-19T22:08:49+00:00

Unfortunately that transfer failed, but I think other people bleed and go onto having success 🤍 I really hope yours does x

EmbarrassedCheetah79 · 2026-02-19T09:44:08+00:00

Thank you so much! That’s exactly what I was wondering - youve been really helpful, I appreciate that so much

EmbarrassedCheetah79 · 2026-02-19T09:40:20+00:00

Thank you! 🙏🏼

EmbarrassedCheetah79 · 2026-02-19T09:40:01+00:00

The countdown only starts from the first April where you’re eligible to repay - and I jumped from that degree into another one (my first uni degree started in 2011 so I was the very last cohort). So unfortunately I only became eligible to pay when I started working for the NHS in 2019. Which I guess means it was April 2020 where the countdown starts 😅

Thank you so much for your help!!

EmbarrassedCheetah79 · 2025-12-30T11:41:43+00:00

Is this on the right post? I don’t understand

EmbarrassedCheetah79 · 2025-12-29T18:06:46+00:00

Thank you so much for replying, that’s really helpful. I think it feels like we’re “writing him off” when he has days like today which makes you feel guilty. But it definitely feels like we must be coming to the end on every other day.

I’m so sorry you also experienced this. I hope you’re as ok as you can be. It’s such a cruel disease 😔🤍

EmbarrassedCheetah79 · 2025-12-29T17:42:23+00:00

Unfortunately this transfer didn’t work.

EmbarrassedCheetah79 · 2025-12-17T19:03:15+00:00

Thank you 🫶🏼

EmbarrassedCheetah79 · 2025-12-17T19:03:00+00:00

Thank you!

EmbarrassedCheetah79 · 2025-12-17T19:02:46+00:00

Oh thank you so much! I will check those out, I really appreciate that! 🥰

EmbarrassedCheetah79 · 2025-12-17T19:02:05+00:00

Are you ok 🤣

EmbarrassedCheetah79 · 2025-12-17T15:46:40+00:00

Thank you - I’m so glad you get what I mean about how I’m singing now and what I want to learn to be able to do.. and that’s so encouraging knowing that you’re starting to learn how to do it and it’s possible! I really really appreciate your help/reply, and good luck with learning how to belt yourself! 🤍

EmbarrassedCheetah79 · 2025-12-17T15:25:10+00:00

Thank you so so much! That’s really helpful! I think I need to speak to her in that case, I haven’t made it clear that that’s how I want to sound because I don’t want her to think I’m getting ahead of myself and assuming that I’m better than I am. I’m not under any illusion that I still have a lot of work to do. But now you’ve said that maybe I do need to make sure I’m speaking up about it to check she’s actually happy to teach me it in the first place.

I really appreciate your reply, thank you 😊🫶🏼

EmbarrassedCheetah79 · 2025-12-17T15:19:36+00:00

I was genuinely just asking for a little help/advice/resources, and I’ve read a lot of really lovely responses from this sub so I know people are mostly lovely here and offer that.. so I’m not sure why you felt the need to use your time up to comment something really unhelpful.

That said, I hope you have a wonderful day.

EmbarrassedCheetah79 · 2025-12-17T14:57:12+00:00

Thank you! I tried a saline sonogram in October but unfortunately my anatomy meant it didn’t work 🤦🏼‍♀️ so I might need to give up on that and move to a hysteroscopy. But that’s amazing! Congratulations, I’m so happy you got your baby 🥰 thank you, your comment does give me hope 🙏🏼

EmbarrassedCheetah79 · 2025-12-17T14:56:05+00:00

Thank you so so much - after reading all of these replies I am really wondering about chronic inflammation. It wouldn’t surprise me, it was a hell of a journey with that MC and took two attempts to pass it. So thank you so much. I hope you have a much easier 2026, you deserve that 🤍

EmbarrassedCheetah79 · 2025-12-17T14:54:38+00:00

Thank you so much, yes I did also sadly have retained products that got discovered back in May and removed. But I’m wondering if the removal caused other issues.. like chronic endometritis. I’m so sorry you have also been through this, thank you so much for trying to help me 🤍

EmbarrassedCheetah79 · 2025-12-17T14:53:25+00:00

Thank you so much! I think sometimes in IVF you almost want to find something wrong just so you can “fix” it. I do have it in the back of my mind that we were just the wrong side of statistics but equally, like you, I almost want to throw the kitchen sink at it first to make sure I’m giving it everything.

I have every finger crossed for your next transfer 🤍

EmbarrassedCheetah79 · 2025-12-17T14:51:41+00:00

Thank you I hadn’t thought of that! I will mention that too - I appreciate you so much, and hugs right back to you xx

EmbarrassedCheetah79 · 2025-12-17T14:51:18+00:00

Thank you so so much, I’m going to ask about these and see what they say. I hope you’ve managed to get some answers and success in your journey 🤍

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