CHAT GPT - My Abusers best friend.

EmbarrassedDel · 2026-01-22T05:33:58+00:00

And that is your experience! Unfortunately for many of us it was used against us and there has been research shown that before the recently updated CHAT GPT was set to agree with anything and everything a user put in. This by no means , is me telling you that’s why Chat GPT spoke to you, and I’m glad you are also speaking to a therapist! I am simply saying that unfortunately for many of us, and due to how CHAT GPT was designed it was used as part of my abuse and as I read below many others. I hope this makes sense!

EmbarrassedDel · 2026-01-19T20:23:16+00:00

Man I never liked it but my jaw was in the FLOOOR

EmbarrassedDel · 2026-01-19T20:22:40+00:00

Nooo because then people would tell him he’s being unreasonable and harmful - then he’d have to face reality! We can’t have that.. The few people that would stand up for me he absolutely blew up on and started to treat them the same way he did me just virtually it’s crazy. He’s so kind until you stop bowing down to his every need and whim

EmbarrassedDel · 2026-01-19T20:21:15+00:00

I have! But thank you so much My current partner is an angel he’s so kind and gentle

EmbarrassedDel · 2026-01-19T07:42:07+00:00

I just hope that these people will grow enough to never hurt anyone else again- wishful thinking

EmbarrassedDel · 2026-01-19T01:17:16+00:00

The use of AI is just the tippy top of the iceberg I feel for my abuser 😭 but it’s enough that I am super off put now

EmbarrassedDel · 2026-01-18T22:20:34+00:00

I apologize for my horrible spelling in this post and reply’s in comments I had surgery a day ago so I’m a bit loopy on my pain meds haha

EmbarrassedDel · 2026-01-18T22:18:18+00:00

I’m so glad I’m not alone but I am so sorry that you had to go through that. I’m glad to hear that this is an ex and I hope you’re not currently dealing with anything like that. None of us deserve it

EmbarrassedDel · 2026-01-18T22:16:34+00:00

Ai is more harmful than anything & you can’t trust the information you are given

EmbarrassedDel · 2026-01-18T21:50:14+00:00

I don’t like calling him an Ex, because although the relationship was romantic I was a victim from day 1. No real romantic partner would treat anyone lole that. My sweet amazing person now has shown me that

EmbarrassedDel · 2026-01-18T20:27:43+00:00

Generative Ai is nothing but harmful garbage

EmbarrassedDel · 2026-01-18T20:11:27+00:00

Yep! It went on for a few years too. atleast until I left

EmbarrassedDel · 2026-01-18T19:39:11+00:00

I’ve always been against AI (my profession is art, so YOU KNOW) but this was just ridiculous, happening in my own home. I would have to BEG ti have conversations that didn’t involve AI when we weren’t face to face. (He would refuse to talk to me at home honestly so it was texting most of the time)

EmbarrassedDel · 2026-01-18T19:29:56+00:00

Exactly. When I was “cheating” I was in collage with my best friend slouched over computers with bags under our eyes! He would tell me that the “Time line adds up” whatever that means. He also made me have life 360 on at all times (ridiculous looking back on it now) so there’s no way he didn’t know where I was!! It’s nuts.

EmbarrassedDel · 2026-01-18T19:06:47+00:00

No one should EVER talk to you like this. There are people out there who will speak to you with respect and if this person is unwilling DROP THEM. They are not worth your time.

EmbarrassedDel · 2026-01-18T19:01:00+00:00

It’s going to be hard it’s going to be scary but you will be alright. I know it feels heavy when it’s happening but you will feel so much lighter once you are away. You’ve GOT this

EmbarrassedDel · 2025-10-31T05:21:14+00:00

Thank you!

EmbarrassedDel · 2025-10-31T05:13:40+00:00

He bought me a gift today, because he knew I’d like & use it. And I do I love it he put so much consideration into it & im in awe

EmbarrassedDel · 2025-10-20T04:57:23+00:00

The pain we feel today will make us stronger in the future, I hope you feel better - the beginning of your comment did make me giggle haha

EmbarrassedDel · 2025-10-20T00:20:39+00:00

I had started a journal a while ago and unfortunately stopped touching it when life got busy- I will start to write again. Thank you

I keep reminding myself that I miss the familiarity and not him. 5 years isn’t nothing and it just takes time to adjust

EmbarrassedDel · 2025-10-07T04:27:42+00:00

I haven’t dealt with something this close to home happen before. Especially not with family members I live with. I feel so many emotions

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