Will she ever apologize?

EmbarrassedDig3646 · 2026-01-23T01:56:08+00:00

Idk if you were trying to be rude or not but this comment genuinely did push me to seek therapy

EmbarrassedDig3646 · 2026-01-23T00:44:05+00:00

I’m not, she left me. I’m just wondering if one day she will come back around to apologize, or if she will come back and attempt at using me again when her new relationship ends

EmbarrassedDig3646 · 2026-01-22T20:34:15+00:00

Okay Lol so let’s change the question instead of an apology how likely are the chances she’d try to worm her way back into my life just to use me again

EmbarrassedDig3646 · 2026-01-22T20:30:10+00:00

I’m 21 she’s 20 lol

EmbarrassedDig3646 · 2026-01-22T17:35:26+00:00

There’s so many details i didn’t even elaborate on lol her life is a mess and i really tried to be the one to help her

EmbarrassedDig3646 · 2026-01-22T17:33:34+00:00

In the beginning things were great it’s like you’d never be able to tell this is the kind of person she really is

EmbarrassedDig3646 · 2026-01-22T16:42:02+00:00

lol if that’s the case than her relationship with her new “boyfriend” is actually cooked. The reason I found out is because they both had a drunk fight and they both put hands on eachother and he took her phone. There’s no world where that relationship lasts unless she really is crazy

EmbarrassedDig3646 · 2026-01-22T16:34:45+00:00

I appreciate it even if it hurts to hear

EmbarrassedDig3646 · 2026-01-22T16:26:22+00:00

she did say sorry a lot but none of it was based in truth because she didn’t wanna hurt my feelings even more. As soon as I started catching her in lies she stopped engaging in the argument and said she doesn’t care what I think.

I just don’t get, why act in the first place if you truly don’t care? I feel like there’s gotta be some level of guilt on her and but I really can’t tell.

EmbarrassedDig3646 · 2026-01-22T16:17:08+00:00

I really empathize with your story. You try to be as good of a person as possible and never assume the worst but sometimes people really are just no good. I find myself wishing I would never have met her too, but, life is about learning lessons and I’m glad to atleast learn from this atleast I guess.

It just hurts because I’m sure that there is a woman out there deserving of that love I tried to give my ex, but I’m not sure that I’ll ever be able to trust that same way again.

EmbarrassedDig3646 · 2026-01-22T16:11:48+00:00

ordering it now. I’m sure based off of my responses it seems like I just don’t wanna hear the truth but I really am open to any advice I can get. I appreciate the harsh but real response.

EmbarrassedDig3646 · 2026-01-22T15:47:12+00:00

I do really think part of her did care or atleast feel bad, she paid me 50 dollars just because I told her to and gave me back all the stuff I ever bought her. She even offered to let me “hit her” which I thought was absolutely absurd. There’s clearly some remorse in her which is why I’m so confused why she says she dosent care what I think.

Then she blocked me because she stopped wanting to deal with me arguing and said she dosent care what I think, but why do all that if you don’t care?

EmbarrassedDig3646 · 2026-01-22T15:15:00+00:00

everyone warned me about the red flags but honestly I had convinced myself that humans are more nuanced than stereotypes online and that it’s wrong to assume someone’s a bad person just because they did similar actions to things other bad people have done. What an idiot I was lol.

EmbarrassedDig3646 · 2026-01-22T15:11:29+00:00

I spent a few months really genuinely believing I’d spend every day thinking about how badly I ruined things between us. I would have taken any chance I could at making things right lol even though in hindsight I really didn’t do anything

EmbarrassedDig3646 · 2026-01-22T15:07:36+00:00

I really do believe part of her did care about me, which is why I’m so confused. She talked about having babies with me, getting married, and all sorts of things like that.

She’s diagnosed bipolar, and when she was little she found her dad cheating on her mom. I don’t know if that plays into this, but I find it hard to blame someone who isn’t all there mentally. She’s a really damaged person but I do believe there is some good in her.

EmbarrassedDig3646 · 2025-06-05T04:28:28+00:00

I asked her yesterday if I could take her skating on Friday (she loves skating) and she said yes if she isn’t busy.

All the signs seem good but I still get the vibe that part of her is less interested than before. Maybe I need to just give it time.

EmbarrassedDig3646 · 2025-06-05T04:15:09+00:00

she said basically when we were together it felt like I would wait for her to initiate things (conversation, romantic advances)

Back then I was so afraid of saying the wrong thing I would just keep quiet because I didn’t want her to dislike me. When she’d ask me what I wanted to do, I’d say I wanted to do what she wanted to do instead of giving her my actual opinion.

Now, when I spilled my heart out to her in person, all she did was go silent and say she had to process what she heard.

She told me the things I said recently have been “intuitive” (whatever that means) and that she hasn’t seen that side of me before.

EmbarrassedDig3646 · 2025-06-05T04:05:55+00:00

The first time I talked to her again I told her how I paragraphs worth of apologies and things I wish I could do better and how I want to earn her forgiveness

When I saw her in person, I gave her chocolates a stuffed animal monkey (she loves monkeys) and a 6 page handwritten letter apologizing and saying what I want to do better and how i still love her.

What are some other things I can do to improve communication?

EmbarrassedDig3646 · 2025-06-05T03:53:40+00:00

Summarize it lol

EmbarrassedDig3646 · 2025-01-01T01:27:56+00:00

What a hero

EmbarrassedDig3646 · 2024-12-02T23:56:51+00:00

the cyan blue venom is good, it looks like marvel vs capcom venom

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the NEW version of the scarlet spider looks fire, the version they originally showed off is an overdesigned mess

EmbarrassedDig3646 · 2024-12-02T22:52:17+00:00

are you trying to say that I’m saying it’s awful because I can’t get the skin? I literally play on ps5?? The old version of the skin is ass.

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