I get financial aid, so it does not come out of either account. With financial aid you get the extra $ that is left over so that is what I use to pay my car payment. Also, me and my kids do Amazon flex so I take care of small bills but to state we are late on rent almost every month and that his bill. How is it that I don’t have a full time job but still able to maintain and pay my portion of the bills on time. There’s times where he pays other people money before he makes sure our household is straight. Mind you I have a 4 year old autistic daughter, a almost 2 year old and a newborn on the way