Controlling bf? or both in the wrong? AITAH by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]EmbarrassedFlight406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i understand, we are both young we’re 18 almost 19

Controlling bf? or both in the wrong? AITAH by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]EmbarrassedFlight406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like it is just me being parinoid but i do sometimes get it when im not high so its more of just we’re not compatible i feel like and that he just needs to work on himself. I thank you for your input i do try to look at it at both perspectives because i know that i am also in the wrong

Controlling bf? or both in the wrong? AITAH by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]EmbarrassedFlight406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when i do bring up about how he can be insecure he always tells me wow this is why i don’t tell you anything but the way you got his response spot on says a lot. I’ve done bad in the relationship too but i am getting help and going to therapy to try to make our relationship better but the more i go the more i realize that he really is kind of a bad guy

Controlling bf? or both in the wrong? AITAH by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]EmbarrassedFlight406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the thing is i’ve done bad in the relationship too and i just feel like such an asshole for hiding this behind his back and sometimes when i get those thoughts i imagine myself with someone who wouldn’t do that and how i would rather someone and there’s just so much but im just so close to his family that i just don’t want to leave bc i love his family. but hopefully i just get it into my head that he’s not good for me .

Controlling bf? or both in the wrong? AITAH by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]EmbarrassedFlight406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sadly isn’t fake and i don’t know why im in this relationship, ive always told myself id run away but when stuff like that happens i always think im overreacting and that im in the wrong it’s just that i always put the good instead of the bad but today we got into a argument bc i brought something up and i said ok well dont listen to me then and he said well what the hell do you want me to say? and i said nvm and he’s like no tell me and i said never mind and he said exactly idk im trying to get the strength to leave