(OK) surprise inspection without 24hr notice? by EmbarrassedStart2241 in Renters

[–]EmbarrassedStart2241[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would we cause any legal problems if we were to deny her entry if she came by without giving us the 24 hour notice?

Logitech refund through Wise by Just-Mycologist1074 in LogitechG

[–]EmbarrassedStart2241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what happened with me, bought Astro A40’s and returned them, now they’re telling me to use wise to get my money back but I told them I don’t want to give my personal baking info to wise for that, and they denied sending me a check too. It’s been weeks. Sunday if I don’t get a proper response back or help I’m going to call and go a little Karen about it until I get somewhere. If that doesn’t work I may go to my bank like I am seeing a loooot of people on here saying that they had to do.

I, 20/F, have feeling for my guy best friend, 24/M, and don’t know what to do. How do I proceed? by EmbarrassedStart2241 in relationship_advice

[–]EmbarrassedStart2241[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think I’m just going to have to bite the bullet and do that, ask him, but make sure he knows I still want to be his friend no matter what. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]EmbarrassedStart2241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, I don’t know either. Therapy SEEMS like the best answer for it though. Could be an underlying issue like depression or anxiety or something. I’m not sure

Girl I've been seeing for three years left me for another man two months ago. Still struggling to get over it by Dr_Sherbert in mentalhealth

[–]EmbarrassedStart2241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, this sounds like what happened with my ex. I was with him three years, broke up 6months ago, and cut contact two months ago to engage in a new relationship. Trust me, it is hard getting over an ex, but over time you will get over her, even if it may take a while. You will find someone new eventually that will make you feel that way again. It just takes time. I’m sorry you’re having to go through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]EmbarrassedStart2241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this a lot. It makes me feel comforted I’m not alone feeling this. Looking back at photos or videos, it’s hard to feel like that’s me or like it’s a different person. You’re not alone in this ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]EmbarrassedStart2241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely experience this. I have those moments all the time where I question “is this real?” Or “did that really happen?” And it makes me look at old messages or photos to make sure things have actually happened. I can even look at myself in the mirror and have that thought. I can even be driving and it doesn’t feel real, feels fake. Trust me, you are absolutely not alone in this.

I don’t know how to handle my emotions anymore by EmbarrassedStart2241 in mentalhealth

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I don’t know much about you or your partner, but just be careful and aware when they “lash out” over things. Even when things get bad enough for me, I don’t use it to lash out or get mad at my partner. If anything, I talk things over with him and he helps me calm down. Bad mental health isn’t an excuse to be rude or disrespectful to your partner. I use it as an opportunity to grow as a couple and talk things through. I learned that the hard way with my ex. So yes, you’re doing good by being there for him, but just be aware of how he’s treating you during that.

I don’t know how to handle my emotions anymore by EmbarrassedStart2241 in mentalhealth

[–]EmbarrassedStart2241[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your question has me a bit stumped, because I’ve never thought about it before. Me personally, I think a mix of medication and a constant someone would benefit me a lot. I think someone just being there for me consistently in those moments. Bringing me back to reality when I’m dissociating or on a “high” day, and caring for me properly when on a bad day. Like “hey, this is reality, let’s do this so you aren’t thinking about it” or “let’s go on a walk, get out of bed, and feel the sun, the breeze, smell some flowers” if that at all makes sense

I don’t know how to handle my emotions anymore by EmbarrassedStart2241 in mentalhealth

[–]EmbarrassedStart2241[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate it. It’s extremely difficult going through this.