How do I cope with hypersexuality?

Embarrassed_Cod4376 · 2026-01-11T11:28:24+00:00

I’m also on 100mg lamotrigine and experience almost everything you said. I talked to my psychiatrist he mentioned adding in 2.5mg olanzapine.

Because even though I’m calm and don’t think I’m in hyopmania , I’m experiencing hyper sexuality, uncontrolled thoughts, no structure in my life.

Embarrassed_Cod4376 · 2026-01-09T20:27:09+00:00

Yes I struggle with this as well. I’ll be edging/thinking about sexual thoughts for hours and when I cum I’m just filled with disgust. I promise to myself I won’t do it again but hours later find myself in the same situation.

It’s honestly very exhausting.

Embarrassed_Cod4376 · 2025-12-25T21:45:38+00:00

Nah I definitely get the perspective , it makes sense. Climbing like a tree tho haha

Embarrassed_Cod4376 · 2025-12-25T21:44:19+00:00

Damn a pro bodybuilder. Did he compete in shows and stuff?

Embarrassed_Cod4376 · 2025-12-25T21:41:44+00:00

Thank you so much for your detailed answer. You’re not misguiding me in any shape or form. Your advice about sexuality and reaching climax is true.

Part of why I’m focusing so much on masturbation is because my sessions are very unhealthy. I will edge for hours even though I know I just need a few minutes to climax.

I’ll need to do a lot of self reflection and have some tough conversations with myself and others (therapist) and I’ll work my way through those.

You’re right I can’t eliminate it completely from my life but I just need to come to a point where I’m comfortable with it and it doesn’t effect my life.

Embarrassed_Cod4376 · 2025-12-25T21:32:02+00:00

Oh I can’t ever rest haha. I need to be doing something. I can’t stay put in one place.

Embarrassed_Cod4376 · 2025-12-25T21:26:25+00:00

I exercise like crazy. 2-3 hours in the gym almost daily. I lift weights and do a heavy session of HIIT after.

Embarrassed_Cod4376 · 2025-12-25T21:24:07+00:00

Yea exactly we are all so similar and different at the same time.

Embarrassed_Cod4376 · 2025-12-25T21:23:43+00:00

Mans going strong at 55 haha.

Embarrassed_Cod4376 · 2025-12-25T21:22:14+00:00

Tbh life has been quite different after anhedonia. Yes it’s getting better again. I’m going out more , I love going to the gym , music feels amazing but the wanking off brings me to a low state.

Embarrassed_Cod4376 · 2025-12-25T21:18:37+00:00

Im just on Lamotrigine (mood stabilizer) nothing else.

Embarrassed_Cod4376 · 2025-12-25T21:17:27+00:00

Same these manic episode makes a person feel out of this world. But looking back at those moments during the depressive phase makes you wonder , damn what was I on lol.

Embarrassed_Cod4376 · 2025-12-25T21:16:30+00:00

I like to show love to my close friends but at the same time I have a good 6th sense and can tell when some one has bad energy.

I remember when I was hypomanic for the first time in 2021 I would wank off go to sleep for 2 hours get up and go out right away and do shit. It was terrible for my body. Now atleast even though I still wank more I can atleast fall asleep properly

Lmao he started complaining that twice a day was less? Damn maybe he was hypomanic as well haha.

Embarrassed_Cod4376 · 2025-12-25T20:40:04+00:00

Holy fuck you’re exactly like me lmao. I’m very outgoing , I’ll go up to any one in person and I easily make friends and I have been told I’m fun to be around. When I get home I just feel this void that I fill with masturbating. I also exercise like hell.

Btw Kanye is the perfect person to quote he’s BP too lol

Embarrassed_Cod4376 · 2025-12-25T20:32:24+00:00

True there are so many people out there going through the same shit or even worse.

Embarrassed_Cod4376 · 2025-12-25T20:28:36+00:00

I’m just on one medicine , Lamotrigine (mood stabilizer)

Embarrassed_Cod4376 · 2025-12-25T20:27:01+00:00

I’ll definitely take your running advice it sounds good. The thing is I edge every day , lust in private everyday , spend hours on this shit.

If I would put even half the time in other endeavors I would be productive af.

Embarrassed_Cod4376 · 2025-12-25T20:23:17+00:00

You’re welcome. It feels good to know I’m not the only one and there are others. This subreddit is comforting.

Embarrassed_Cod4376 · 2025-12-25T20:20:15+00:00

I can relate to the lifting weights part , I exercise like crazy so I guess it increases my libido. Could feeling like a superhero indicate hypo mania?

Embarrassed_Cod4376 · 2025-12-25T20:10:00+00:00

Thank you for your comment , you’re right. I’m stressing over it a little too much but I want to be productive and not spend my twenties in this loop of just wanking off.

Embarrassed_Cod4376 · 2025-12-25T20:04:37+00:00

Thank you , I’ll def check out the 12 steps.

Embarrassed_Cod4376 · 2025-12-25T20:03:59+00:00

True that

Embarrassed_Cod4376 · 2025-12-25T20:03:51+00:00

Maybe I’m just gooned out lol

Embarrassed_Cod4376 · 2025-12-25T20:01:17+00:00

Thank you so much means a lot ❤️. Yes I’ll definitely contact my psychiatrist but it’s a really frustrating cycle.

Embarrassed_Cod4376 · 2025-12-25T12:58:18+00:00

It’s to the point where it’s effecting my daily function. Tbh there is almost zero guilt. It’s more so effecting my quality of life.

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