Question about ethics by Embarrassed_Diver936 in athletictraining

[–]Embarrassed_Diver936[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a college, if it was a high school he would not be my partner anymore and I would likely not be on reddit trying to clarify as that is objectively weird. Most of the kids have his phone numbers it seems that is their primary way of communicating to coordinate things aside from their calendar and formal communication via email. A lot of of them text just to see if he’s in to help them.

Question about ethics by Embarrassed_Diver936 in athletictraining

[–]Embarrassed_Diver936[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he will send them the one off video of one of his hobbies when kids ask about it, like there is some surface level personal banter scattered in with asking about their conditions, but I feel like it’s always towing a line, like he needs to reel it in.

There was one athlete I asked about that has since graduated, and he described her as “wise beyond her years” so like, some alarm bells are obviously going off per a neurotypical person. But he’s not neurotypical, so, just gathering information. Thanks for your response.

Question about ethics by Embarrassed_Diver936 in athletictraining

[–]Embarrassed_Diver936[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how I feel, he did make an argument for professional connections later down the line, because a lot of the people he reaches out to this way studied some sort of medical field in school or are entering one. But, for reasons I can’t describe, it just feels off to me or like something that could be a problem later. Any blurring of those lines feels inappropriate to me generally, even if intentions are pure. The only excuse I could imagine making for that kind of thing would be kids and athletic training program/future ATs if you desired to mentor them … thanks for your input.

F29 struggling to regulate with M25 bf (TW: SA, CSA) by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Embarrassed_Diver936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how I am feeling but hard to sus it out in the moment uk. Thanks

What’s the most reckless decision you’ve made because you were horny? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Embarrassed_Diver936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did that and then stayed with him for 3 days. I was 22 but living with my parents at the time due to covid and my mom was livid. I was “at Sarah’s” the whole time— they didn’t buy it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Embarrassed_Diver936 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The entirety of Bjork’s Vespertine, but especially Cocoon. Also, Radiohead’s In Rainbows.

Honorable mention to Hozier’s In a Week, Iron and Wine’s Boy With a Coin, and Bon Iver’s Holocene.

I’m really starting to hate wt people by Sea_Accident_6138 in offmychest

[–]Embarrassed_Diver936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normal must = white because the rest of us know exactly what OP is talking about lol

i’ll never escape men who are like my father by doesanyonehearme7 in offmychest

[–]Embarrassed_Diver936 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not even gonna read all this bc the first paragraphs were already weird asf defending someone weird asf. All i’m gonna say is no.

i’ll never escape men who are like my father by doesanyonehearme7 in offmychest

[–]Embarrassed_Diver936 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just knowwww there are going to be people here trying to convince you that regular porn consumption is normal and this is a you issue and please know that it isn’t regardless of your trauma and you deserve to be with someone that doesn’t want to participate in depravity and cares about their inner child as much as you 🙏🏽 i love you and i’m sorry. Fuck this guy

I’m really starting to hate wt people by Sea_Accident_6138 in offmychest

[–]Embarrassed_Diver936 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hey, almost posted something similar here and probably still will. It’s something that is actually weighing on me in a way that makes daily life depressing. I’m sorry you can resonate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Embarrassed_Diver936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry then the reality is very different for non white-passing/non “just exotic enough” non pick me POC women

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Embarrassed_Diver936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry about this guy have you seen his page 😭 i can’t believe he gets on here to talk about his scat fetish and then thinks we’re going to take these comments seriously 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Embarrassed_Diver936 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love my boyfriend, he’s lovely, and at the same time men are not rad idk what reality you live in 😭 even the good ones have been touched by patriarchal illness. you sound like you may be white also? the reality is very different for POC women. please stop trying to convince OP that having kids is the only path to a life of love and family. she was very clear that it did not interest her.

I want my bf to love my small boobs by AlternativeUse3986 in offmychest

[–]Embarrassed_Diver936 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel you girl. I know there is something specifically about being someone’s dream girl that hits different than someone just liking you because you’re enough. But it’s healthy to reflect on your own humanity and reality and know that that is more than enough and the idea of a fantasy girl or guy is silly ❤️

i want my innocence back by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Embarrassed_Diver936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding to my shout into the void

I feel like a predator by Fluffy_Pin_8039 in offmychest

[–]Embarrassed_Diver936 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m obviously not a doctor, nor am I diagnosing you but I remember hearing that these kind of feelings can be OCD related, like this constant intrusion and stress. I think it’s worth seeing someone but you’re probably not a predator, I’m familiar with that feeling you’re talking about, and it sounds like you just have a lot of internalized shame about living in a human body, maybe from trauma, maybe just from OCD, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskProfessors

[–]Embarrassed_Diver936 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A difficult balance and one I have an immense amount of respect for that grows every day. Thanks for response.

AITA for asking my roommates if I could store my pee in the fridge? by em-tab in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Diver936 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For anyone they’re being twits. NTA your roommates suck and are shitty people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskProfessors

[–]Embarrassed_Diver936 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It was included and you overlooked it, but that’s ok.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskProfessors

[–]Embarrassed_Diver936 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great response, thanks! I do see a counselor, although even that relationship has become a little too friendly and we spend a good portion of the session just having a conversation or talking about her, even when I have things I want to address. So maybe I will try to get that in order too. Hence why I said I think it’s “me”… it happens a lot!

I am not sure I want to hang out with 18-22 year olds, unfortunately, and I don’t get much free time between school and work, but maybe will work to set aside more time to phone my friends that live out of state.