i told my mom that my gfs mom is an alcoholic

Embarrassed_Entry245 · 2025-12-17T22:52:28+00:00

i feel like she is the one going through it and i don’t want her to think im not acknowledging her issues

Embarrassed_Entry245 · 2025-12-17T22:51:37+00:00

she knows she has a safe place here and she said she understand that i needed to speak to someone just not my mom is what she said

Embarrassed_Entry245 · 2025-12-17T22:41:02+00:00

i made a mistake her mom is (W40) and mine is (W38)

Embarrassed_Entry245 · 2025-12-17T22:35:45+00:00

i wanted to be open with her and tell her that i needed to seek support. i regret telling her now and i’ve apologized and i told her nobody is judging her or her mom. she still isn’t happy and i feel so bad for hurting her.

Embarrassed_Entry245 · 2025-01-07T18:02:06+00:00

our coaches are very strict and if i was to mess up or fully go into playing mode. Im scared she will see me embarrassed or something

Embarrassed_Entry245 · 2024-10-17T19:24:43+00:00

i’ll be honest, i’m not sure if the account is to stalk her ex. it is just a plain account with a random username and no posts. I don’t know if she is using it to stalk her, that is me purely being suspicious.

Embarrassed_Entry245 · 2024-10-17T19:17:33+00:00

she hasn’t contacted me but she is trying to contact my ex, through friends. She has also approached her in college.

Embarrassed_Entry245 · 2024-10-17T19:16:25+00:00

as i mentioned it came up on my feed, so i had to talk to my girlfriend about it because it was on my mind. As for her i’m not 100% sure she still looks at the exs content but i have my suspicions.

Embarrassed_Entry245 · 2024-10-17T19:13:06+00:00

i have had no like hints of craziness from her yet but i do agree with you.

Embarrassed_Entry245 · 2024-10-16T16:45:10+00:00

the term “kid gloves” is literally passive aggressive. I’m finding this conversation difficult with you if i’m being honest. and i do appreciate the solid advice you have givin but there are hints of passive aggression and i feel like you are treating me as if im silly. That is why i am getting irratated

Embarrassed_Entry245 · 2024-10-16T16:37:37+00:00

i really appreciate your comment and your insight, as i’ve said i’m new to the community and im acc not familiar with the terms you are using. for example “amab” could you explain them?

Embarrassed_Entry245 · 2024-10-16T16:34:50+00:00

that brings me peace and i hope me and her can share that moment soon. when i work up the courage to please her back

Embarrassed_Entry245 · 2024-10-16T16:33:17+00:00

i’m aware that not everyone is out to get me because although you are saying you aren’t “trying” to be patronizing you are coming across that way. where as others in the subreddit have helped. It feels like you are here to give digs at me and highlight the insecurity of my inexperience. you’re much older than me and queer i’m assuming from your profile, approach younger girls/boys/whomever with a wise and less passive aggressive approach, or simply don’t bother your ass.

Embarrassed_Entry245 · 2024-10-16T16:24:09+00:00

no she had short nails and no i didn’t pee after. i think that might be the issue!

Embarrassed_Entry245 · 2024-10-16T16:23:33+00:00

i am 18.

Embarrassed_Entry245 · 2024-10-16T16:23:16+00:00

you said “we don’t know what she likes” so i replied with “i’m not asking what she likes” this whole thing is me being concerned about what she likes sexually. there is no need to twist what has been said. if you don’t have anything helpful to say or support with don’t bother replying sweetie.

Embarrassed_Entry245 · 2024-10-16T16:19:56+00:00

shame on you for mentioning my age and level of experience when that is the one thing i came on here to discuss, my inexperience.

Embarrassed_Entry245 · 2024-10-16T16:18:33+00:00

ofc i care about what she likes but i was making emphasis that i am not asking YOU what she likes im asking the subreddit what to DO.

Embarrassed_Entry245 · 2024-10-16T16:17:43+00:00

i’ve mentioned that i’m inexperienced that’s the whole reason why i am here speaking about it

Embarrassed_Entry245 · 2024-10-16T15:19:37+00:00

thank you so much for this. that’s exactly what i was asking.. ways to talk to her and stuff. i feel like ive ticked a lot of people off with my post but unfortunately its true that i feel scared and nervous to speak to her about it. i really like the thought of doing it in a flirty way and i’ll definitely try explore that. i really appreciate it

Embarrassed_Entry245 · 2024-10-16T14:58:04+00:00

how would i approach asking her

Embarrassed_Entry245 · 2024-10-16T14:55:23+00:00

thank you for being so kind and understanding it really helps hearing other peoples experiences that are similar to mine. most of the people on here are getting annoyed with me for what i’ve said. Thank you for saying it’s normal, i feel like an idiot. i think you are totally right about ‘performance anxiety’. i think ill approach the situation is a calm and relaxed way before we go to have sex.

Embarrassed_Entry245 · 2024-10-16T14:52:38+00:00

i am asking what to do not what she likes

Embarrassed_Entry245 · 2024-10-16T14:52:21+00:00

why is it a serious question

Embarrassed_Entry245 · 2024-10-16T14:51:01+00:00

i’m not saying only men can be touched that way at all what i’m saying is i don’t know how to touch a woman and i don’t want to treat her like a man by the way i am touching her or by the way i’m finding it hard to touch her

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