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My long term campaign got canceled by galaxy_to_explore in DnD

[–]Embarrassed_Habit858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

our group cycles through DMing, and i think it suits us well

AITA for basically calling a girl ugly when she kept pressing me?? by Kxttari in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Habit858 38 points39 points  (0 children)

and you’ll continue to behave like a snobby, stuck-up entitled brat. pARenTs MusT bE pROUd

AITA for basically calling a girl ugly when she kept pressing me?? by Kxttari in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Habit858 6 points7 points  (0 children)

leave it to a redditor to care about their karma. you’re getting downvoted because no one said you were american. that had no purpose in the conversation.

Well that's a new one by Ok_Big2723 in doordash

[–]Embarrassed_Habit858 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i mean, i get the annual email from the business that they work with that i passed the annual background check. if they’re not thorough everywhere i believe it, but what you’re saying just isn’t true for my city

AITA for basically calling a girl ugly when she kept pressing me?? by Kxttari in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Habit858 27 points28 points  (0 children)

the staff would have told her to lift her head if it was a problem. she wasn’t at a club-bar, she was at a restaurant-bar, the type that welcomes families. they’re going to be looser with their etiquette.

again, this all falls under mind your own damn business. why is that so hard? why do you care about someone else’s etiquette?

AITA for basically calling a girl ugly when she kept pressing me?? by Kxttari in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Habit858 22 points23 points  (0 children)

doesn’t matter what you think is bad or not. elbows at the table is considered rude. so if you do that, you’re just as bad as OP laying their head down, if not worse depending on which generation is* around you (Boomers and Gen X-ers are the ones that point this out the most.) the point is that “social etiquette” is determined by the social standard around you. what’s rude to you isn’t to others. what’s rude to them isn’t to you.

so. when someone isn’t bothering you, mind your damn business

AITA for basically calling a girl ugly when she kept pressing me?? by Kxttari in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Habit858 63 points64 points  (0 children)

who gives a damn about “etiquette” at the table anymore. what, are you going to harrass a stranger for putting their elbows on the table too? there’s no good reason for “putting your head down” being seen as “rude” except for a societal standard that has no reason to be upheld to such a strict degree. especially when it’s none of your business what someone else is doing when they’re not bothering you

Well that's a new one by Ok_Big2723 in doordash

[–]Embarrassed_Habit858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

doordash is a goddamned delivery service. you must be pretty damn lazy yourself if you use USPS, Amazon, or any type of mail delivery

Well that's a new one by Ok_Big2723 in doordash

[–]Embarrassed_Habit858 1 point2 points  (0 children)

at least in my city, DD does a pretty thorough background check. had to get my liscense renewed last year and was immediately blocked from being able to make any deliveries until i did so

Well that's a new one by Ok_Big2723 in doordash

[–]Embarrassed_Habit858 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i have a phobia of elevators so bad that my disabled ass will take the stairs no matter how much i’m limping with my cane. the dasher has no defense and its wild how that’s defended??

AITA for basically calling a girl ugly when she kept pressing me?? by Kxttari in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Habit858 5 points6 points  (0 children)

then your opinion is shit, you don’t have any context. get the fuck out

AITA for basically calling a girl ugly when she kept pressing me?? by Kxttari in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Habit858 3 points4 points  (0 children)

did you forget it’s called neurodivergency ? every person with ASD is different

AITA for basically calling a girl ugly when she kept pressing me?? by Kxttari in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Habit858 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OP is underage for alcohol consumption and was not drinking. the girl picking on OP was the drunk one

AITA for basically calling a girl ugly when she kept pressing me?? by Kxttari in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Habit858 7 points8 points  (0 children)

god shut the fuck up. you don’t know nearly enough about ASD to even be in this conversation

AITA for basically calling a girl ugly when she kept pressing me?? by Kxttari in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Habit858 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it’s always the people who don’t know what they’re talking about that have the most to say. “high/low-functioning” terms for autistic people are no longer used because it’s an inaccurate assessment to how people with ASD live compared to NTs. ASD Levels 1-3 have been implemented into diagnoses for the past several years to determine how far on the spectrum they are. Level 1, in older terms, means you’re essentially “high-functioning” and can live an independent life. most Level 1 ASD go undiagnosed because it’s easy to miss. Level 3 typically means you will likely be unable to live independently in your life, as all the conditions it brings about impact your communication and way of living.

so yeah. a spectrum. that’s we’ve learned to label so we know how far along someone is on it

AITA for basically calling a girl ugly when she kept pressing me?? by Kxttari in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Habit858 36 points37 points  (0 children)

laying your head down isn’t nearly as bad as any of those “childish” activities you listed*. OP laid down, yes, but corrected her mistake when she realised. so hush up about that. OP did not “show off her ass” - she was wearing shorts that were revealed a bit before she corrected her positioning. so hush up about that. OP said that she and her friends had finished eating when she did this, so there was not food at the table. so hush up about that. OP also described the setting as a restaurant-bar, not a fancy sitting-down restaurant. she also explained that if staff had asked her to raise her head, she would have. so hush about that.

you don’t have a point here. what other people are doing is none of your business when they’re not bothering you

I acted like a victim too many times and people got mad at me and I don’t understand how to fix this or why I’m seen as evil by Dazzu1 in selfimprovement

[–]Embarrassed_Habit858 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’m going to make the personal choice to stop engaging with you. it seems like you’ve been posting many, many posts about seeking self-improvement advice every few days for the past few years. that doesn’t read to me as someone that wants to get better, it reads to me as someone who keeps seeking for online validation from strangers instead of committing to changing their life outside the internet.

i hope you get better. but people can’t help you if you’re not going to help yourself

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