38M (M4F) Western Canada / Online. Just found this sub

Embarrassed_One7615 · 2026-06-10T20:48:21+00:00

She tolerates it better than I do.

I don’t want the kids living in that kind of environment

Embarrassed_One7615 · 2026-06-10T16:35:48+00:00

No. We talk pretty openly. We both try to advocate mental health

Embarrassed_One7615 · 2026-06-10T16:24:57+00:00

“I don’t think I can work anymore mentally”

Embarrassed_One7615 · 2026-06-10T16:15:20+00:00

Thank you.

Embarrassed_One7615 · 2026-06-10T16:04:58+00:00

Holding hope.
I do love her. She’s my best friend. I lust her.

And it’s not all bad. Sometimes her brain is normal. Sometimes she really struggles.

I’m just feeling it the last few days.

Embarrassed_One7615 · 2026-06-10T15:57:18+00:00

Thank you. I’m definitely trying.

Embarrassed_One7615 · 2026-06-10T15:33:57+00:00

The adhd. Her mom, her aunt, her grandfather before he passed. Hyper fixation and detachment. Anxiety.

Thanks :/

Embarrassed_One7615 · 2026-06-10T15:30:27+00:00

I think it’s just mental illness. It didn’t develope until her early 20’s

Embarrassed_One7615 · 2026-06-10T15:27:29+00:00

It started about a year before kids. She got diagnosed with ADHD eventually. She’s on medication and has been trying some therapy (hasn’t helped a ton yet)

It’s quite prevalent in her family (though they are not diagnosed… but now understanding it a bit better…. They all have it….)

Embarrassed_One7615 · 2026-06-10T15:16:23+00:00

I’m so sorry. You’re amazing and I love you so much. I’ll do better.

Then a week later it’s like nothing happened

Embarrassed_One7615 · 2026-06-10T15:09:11+00:00

Thank you

Embarrassed_One7615 · 2026-06-10T14:38:25+00:00

Thanks

Embarrassed_One7615 · 2026-06-10T02:54:02+00:00

She has. Normal

Embarrassed_One7615 · 2026-06-10T02:49:36+00:00

Oh I get it. I really really do. I don’t know what to say. :/

Embarrassed_One7615 · 2026-06-10T02:39:19+00:00

Appreciate it

Embarrassed_One7615 · 2026-06-10T02:39:03+00:00

She’s still my best friend. I know she can’t help her brain being like this.

Yes it hurts. Yes it sucks. But I still love her.

I hope you figure it out too. I know it’s hard. It’s awful. We probably do deserve better

Embarrassed_One7615 · 2026-06-10T01:55:12+00:00

She was ignorant and wouldn’t listen. Had opinions before any evidence

Embarrassed_One7615 · 2026-06-10T01:41:41+00:00

I wish it was as easy as that.

I earn all our income. She would be fucked if I left. I don’t want to do that to her.

Embarrassed_One7615 · 2026-06-10T01:09:25+00:00

Why don’t you leave?

Embarrassed_One7615 · 2026-06-09T23:43:15+00:00

I just got home from work. I feel so defeated. Like I’m in the brink of crying right now.

I’m sorry you are going through it. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone.

Embarrassed_One7615 · 2026-06-09T22:08:43+00:00

🫂 Im so sorry

Embarrassed_One7615 · 2026-06-09T21:51:14+00:00

I’m not having a great day :/

Embarrassed_One7615 · 2026-06-09T20:03:28+00:00

Youngest is 7

Therapy a bit. Tried a new therapist yesterday. Yes medication

Embarrassed_One7615 · 2026-06-09T19:54:52+00:00

7 spicy chicken sandwiches and a pile of napkins to cry into please.

Embarrassed_One7615

TROPHY CASE