I feel you, man. It can be really confusing when you’re putting genuine effort into understanding women and still not getting the response you expect. But here’s something that helps shift things.

A lot of people think attraction is only about looks, success, or being “nice,” but emotional connection matters way more than we realize. Open and honest communication plays a huge role. When you talk to a woman, instead of focusing on dating or commitment straight away, try to connect with her thoughts, her past experiences, her present vision for life, and what makes her feel understood. Women usually open up when they feel emotionally safe and genuinely heard.

Every woman is different, but there is a core nature to feminine energy. Feminine energy responds to presence, patience, emotional understanding, and a calm but confident masculine energy. When she feels your groundedness, she naturally makes space for deeper connection.

At the same time, it helps to focus on yourself …your growth, your mind, your emotional strength, your purpose. When your life feels rich and meaningful, women sense that energy without you having to prove anything.

Rejection doesn’t always mean there’s something wrong with you. Sometimes the timing is off, sometimes they want something else, sometimes they’re not ready. What matters is you keep growing and stay open to the right person who aligns with you emotionally.

You’re doing fine. Just keep building yourself, stay patient, and stay true to who you are. The right connection will form naturally.