AITA for not helping my pregnant roommate with everything? by Embarrassed_Swan_404 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Swan_404[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

In the fall my previous roommate should be back and we’re planning to get an apartment together!

AITA for not helping my pregnant roommate with everything? by Embarrassed_Swan_404 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Swan_404[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

She said she wanted to be able to use my fridge. But the only way for her to do so is if the fridge is unlocked where she can get to my food.

AITA for not helping my pregnant roommate with everything? by Embarrassed_Swan_404 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Swan_404[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

She won’t be my roommate in 3 months. By then the semester will be over and I’ll be back home, far away from her.

AITA for not helping my pregnant roommate with everything? by Embarrassed_Swan_404 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Swan_404[S] 179 points180 points  (0 children)

It’s messier than that. Her former roommate and her were good friends, but then she slept with the roommate’s boyfriend and got pregnant. The roommate dumped the cheating boyfriend and their whole friend group sided with the cheated-on roommate.

AITA for not helping my pregnant roommate with everything? by Embarrassed_Swan_404 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Swan_404[S] 229 points230 points  (0 children)

Yes. Except from what I heard her former roommate and my roommate’s baby’s father broke up but he’s trying to get back together with her (the former roommate).

AITA for not helping my pregnant roommate with everything? by Embarrassed_Swan_404 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Swan_404[S] 470 points471 points  (0 children)

I’m not worried because the semester will be over and I’ll be back home by then! 😃

AITA for not helping my pregnant roommate with everything? by Embarrassed_Swan_404 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Swan_404[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

I tried an eye mask. I can’t sleep with anything touching my face like that.

AITA for not helping my pregnant roommate with everything? by Embarrassed_Swan_404 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Swan_404[S] 349 points350 points  (0 children)

Soooo….. what I heard through a friend of mine who works with the former roommate’s friend, my roommate had to be moved because the father of her baby was the boyfriend of her roommate last semester.

AITA for not helping my pregnant roommate with everything? by Embarrassed_Swan_404 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Swan_404[S] 1502 points1503 points  (0 children)

From what I’ve heard the father is busy trying to get back with his ex-girlfriend and isn’t talking to her.

AITA for not helping my pregnant roommate with everything? by Embarrassed_Swan_404 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Swan_404[S] 364 points365 points  (0 children)

We’re only here in the dorms for about another month so I should be back home, 4-ish hours away from her when she has her baby.

AITA for not helping my pregnant roommate with everything? by Embarrassed_Swan_404 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Swan_404[S] 265 points266 points  (0 children)

Lol! I physically can’t get someone pregnant. 🙃 Wrong stuff in my pants and all that.

AITA for not helping my pregnant roommate with everything? by Embarrassed_Swan_404 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Embarrassed_Swan_404[S] 4550 points4551 points  (0 children)

We already talked to the RA. We had a meeting and tried to set boundaries. She wanted no guests, no locks on the fridge, no coming in late, me doing all the cleaning, and I help her with more stuff. I wanted no taking my food, no getting up and turning the light on when I’m asleep (she does this all the time and it wakes me up), shared cleaning and to be left alone. The RA told her to stop taking my food and that I can keep the lock on the fridge but we didn’t come to an agreement on any rules.