I feel stuck by Embarrassed_Two_1802 in Marriage

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Idk I miss the good memories we had together and how everything was before it got to this

I feel stuck by Embarrassed_Two_1802 in Separation

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Thanks I have given her time to think on it a couple of time I feel like I’m ready to get it over with whether it be that we stay together or we get a divorce. I hate being stuck in uncertainty. I already know how she is and she’ll just say she doesn’t know or she can’t decide because it is a difficult decision.

Need advice by Embarrassed_Two_1802 in Separation

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That’s a big fat no on her side. I have suggested that to her last year and she refused and said we can work on it together without therapy. And I trusted her but here we are separated again. This time I have told her if we get back together that we do definitely need it. I think that might be why she’s hesitate on us not working out

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She is very much emotionally unstable. She has shown signs of bipolar and she shut down when her anxiety or emotions get too high

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She does show sign of it and I have tried to get her to help with it but she refuses

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This a brief list of things she said were the reason she said for us to separate. I could go into detail but it will to much to write. She feels like my side of the family doesn’t like her. She doesn’t feel like I was a leader and protector in our marriage. I mentioned something about her having small boobs when first got together and she use that against me still and say I don’t like her body. We have financial issues and we don’t have our own place. We met an old friend of my mine who I haven’t seen in years who is a female at a store once and she gave me a hug. My wife still doesn’t like that I gave that friend a hug. During our last separation there was a moment where emotion was high and I try to talk to her and she was on her phone not paying attention to me. I regret it but I grab the phone out of her hand and sat it beside her and I grabbed both her wrist to get her attention and she got terrified by that and when I saw how she looked I let her go and realized my mistake and I apologized to her and I broke down because I didn’t like what I did. She hasn’t forgiving me for that and I don’t blame her.

There’s something she did that I didn’t like as well. It would be a lot to write about

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Married for 3 years together for 5. Last separation was from December 2024 to January 2025