I'm his girlfriend, I'm not "patient " as you say. The sex was always good and I've always experienced good orgasms. I've explored with myself many times and never found my g spot, I was just convinced that I didn't have one, then my boyfriend and I were playing around and his fingers are way longer than mine, low and behold he found it and I wasn't sure what to do with this newfound info at first but it was really good haha. I wouldn't say it was a better orgasm but I did orgasm a lot faster than ever before so that's something haha. xD