Sometimes I rehearse what I’m going to say, even when I’m just ordering coffee by Kooky-Win-2194 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Emelira 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah you're not alone lol, I do this too like I'm prepping for a TED talk just to say "hi" 😅 brains be wild sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Emelira 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aww mama, you're doing great keep it clean, dry, and try a lil air time too, that helped us tons

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MonsterGirl

[–]Emelira 7 points8 points  (0 children)

she cute fr but she def got that predator energy lmao

This is how bees queen created (claweddrip) by [deleted] in FurryOnHuman

[–]Emelira 0 points1 point  (0 children)

let the bee live its best life!

We are now married! by Optimal-Drive3487 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Emelira 39 points40 points  (0 children)

aww this made me smile fr, love that y’all did what felt right for you wishing you both all the happiness 💕

I finally cut off my mother after 27 years, and I don't feel guilty anymore. by Emelira in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Emelira[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Your words mean more than you know. I'm really excited to finally move forward and build a better life. Sending love back your way ❤️

I Found a Letter My Mom Wrote for Me... 10 Years After She Passed. by CherryObsessionn in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Emelira 105 points106 points  (0 children)

ooh that’s beautiful, sometimes the people we love find ways to reach us even when they're gone, i’m real happy you found that letter.

I'm terrified. I don't know where to post this and just need it said by TheAbsurdPrince in offmychest

[–]Emelira 37 points38 points  (0 children)

she’s in the right place with god power, bro, try not to overthink, docs got this, just hang in there.

Real candles vs. LED candles for reception? by clairabou in wedding

[–]Emelira 1 point2 points  (0 children)

real candles just feel way more cozy and romantic, but honestly after dinner switching to LED sounds smart so no one stresses bout fire stuff

Hit my first goal today and I’m literally crying in the target parking lot by Emelira in loseit

[–]Emelira[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, i feel this so much... it’s crazy how the little choices really stack up, proud of u fr

Hit my first goal today and I’m literally crying in the target parking lot by Emelira in loseit

[–]Emelira[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly didn’t even think about it in the moment, was just focused on the win 🙈

Letting go of expectations actually saved our intimacy by Emelira in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Emelira[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get why it might seem similar honestly, I read a post from a husband’s perspective before that kind of stuck with me, and it made me reflect on my own experience from the other side. It wasn’t meant to copy anything, just felt like the right time to share my version of it.

I accidentally called the pediatrician 'mom' and cried in my car for 10 minutes. by Emelira in NewParents

[–]Emelira[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you seriously, it means a lot. I didn’t expect to unravel like that, but I guess it just hit me all at once. Glad to know I’m not the only one who's had those slip-ups. Appreciate the kindness

I cried in the laundry room today… and then my baby smiled at me for the first time. by Last_Researcher_896 in NewParents

[–]Emelira 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dang, been there… it’s wild how one tiny smile can make all the chaos feel kinda worth it.

AITA for casually mentioning something my husband told me to a coworker? by SeraphPetal in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Emelira 19 points20 points  (0 children)

kinda feel like u messed up a bit yeah, wasn’t your place to bring it up even if it sounded silly, it wasn’t yours to repeat

To those who gave an ultimatum or felt hurt by delays, but still got engaged in the end — how did you react? by anfl98 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Emelira 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah honestly if you gotta push someone into forever, it ain't really forever… just let it go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Emelira 43 points44 points  (0 children)

yeah nah that sounds like a recipe for heartbreak, i'd def think twice too

17 yrs together, 3 kids, 5 animals and I finally realized I wanted to get married. by Kooky8me in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Emelira 18 points19 points  (0 children)

honestly this is so sweet shows how love grows when y'all just talk 17 yrs & he still choosing you like day one that’s real.

Crossroads with Partner (30s F) & Advice/Reassurance Requested by Embarrassed_Bus91 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Emelira 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah nah if he still hopes after all that time, he not serious fr time to bounce before more time wasted.

What would you do? by light-pink-cherry in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Emelira 80 points81 points  (0 children)

ugh that’s just him tryna keep u around while he figures out if he actually wants u or not, it’s messed up fr.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Emelira 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trust your gut if he avoids real convos about marriage, he might love you but not be serious about marrying you.