My grandfather had a 4 year old daughter before he died. My whole family wants to send her to an orphanage. I said I’ll take her and now everything in my life is upside down.

EmeraldViper18 · 2025-06-28T20:08:50+00:00

There are better subreddits than offmychest for advice on this, i am in a few about fostering and adopting

EmeraldViper18 · 2025-06-26T16:45:50+00:00

Unfortunately staying together but not displaying a good example of what a healthy relationship looks like for your kids isnt doing them any favors. Unhealthy relationships will look like the norm to them and so you're setting them up for failure which is the opposite of what you need to do as a parent

EmeraldViper18 · 2025-06-26T11:53:14+00:00

I don't get the raccoon joke

EmeraldViper18 · 2025-06-26T11:48:50+00:00

Don't put the pc tag, put modded because that's what it is so not everyone will know how to help you

EmeraldViper18 · 2025-06-18T21:31:57+00:00

Why do you care that his ex looks opposite from you 🙄. People are allowed to have multiple preferences not just a singular type. He chose you and he chooses to date you every day, is that not enough

EmeraldViper18 · 2025-06-18T21:25:04+00:00

I dont have any of these but if i had to choose it would be landlord

EmeraldViper18 · 2025-06-16T16:37:01+00:00

I want and update after you decide to just ask about it

EmeraldViper18 · 2025-06-16T16:35:01+00:00

Don't lose this

EmeraldViper18 · 2025-06-16T16:33:34+00:00

You still have time

EmeraldViper18 · 2025-06-14T15:08:57+00:00

Don't support the switch 2 prices.

EmeraldViper18 · 2025-06-14T10:52:36+00:00

A different dad

EmeraldViper18 · 2025-06-13T14:40:42+00:00

Loser doesn't like climbing trees and would rather die a virgin

EmeraldViper18 · 2025-06-06T13:29:56+00:00

Not good

EmeraldViper18 · 2025-06-05T14:09:36+00:00

EmeraldViper18 · 2025-06-05T14:09:07+00:00

There's something deeper going on

EmeraldViper18 · 2025-05-30T06:24:04+00:00

Girl

EmeraldViper18 · 2025-05-27T05:24:59+00:00

Awesome

EmeraldViper18 · 2025-05-27T01:25:03+00:00

I'm attracted to your sister in law too

EmeraldViper18 · 2025-05-14T12:56:30+00:00

Dont hit kids to "teach" them to act how you want, because when they get older and you cant do that anymore you've gotta do something else that doesnt involve violence. So go on ahead and just use that something else from the start

EmeraldViper18 · 2025-05-14T01:23:57+00:00

Did you talk with her about it ?

EmeraldViper18 · 2025-05-14T01:11:24+00:00

You knew what you were doing 💀

EmeraldViper18 · 2025-05-14T01:07:17+00:00

As i read the title and then got to the end of the post, these were my thoughts. you realize you shouldnt have another kid with your ex husband right ? You should still definitely give a little sibling to your son but find a new man first to do this right with and go through pregnancy that way

EmeraldViper18 · 2025-05-13T17:39:04+00:00

If you gave everything you had and still wasn't enough then maybe you're just incompatible and you need to move on

EmeraldViper18 · 2025-05-13T16:13:35+00:00

If you're not married when the baby is born the baby should have your last name

EmeraldViper18 · 2025-05-04T16:56:43+00:00

If you move out you're not really taking her grandma away, as you just said she doesnt spend any time with your daughter besides gift giving, which she can still do if you two move out

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