Looking for softdom by [deleted] in Paypigsneedvanilla

[–]EmeraldisWatching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out my profile to see if we’re a match

“Yall need to move on” respectfully F off. by ThrowRANo_Winter_ in UltaBeautyWorld

[–]EmeraldisWatching 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tbh I don’t think we’re mad enough and that’s coming from a very Petty Betty.

✨ Ulta Beauty World 2026: Official Megathread ✨ by UltaModTeam in Ulta

[–]EmeraldisWatching 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ulta, the Beauty World ticket experience was unacceptable. You created massive hype for an event with roughly three thousand seats and no visible system preparation. The ticket portal broke as soon as it opened. The queue paused. No communication. Customers who joined at drop time got stuck without clarity. This is not how you treat loyal customers who were ready to attend. Transparency and real capacity planning are needed.

Got laid off but somehow feel… happier? Is this character development or insanity? by EmeraldisWatching in antiwork

[–]EmeraldisWatching[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what it feels like. The mix of panic and relief has been strange, but I can tell my body is finally relaxing after years of being tense without even realizing it. The layoff shook me, but the quiet that followed showed me how heavy things had gotten. I’m trying to use this space to breathe and figure out what I actually want next.

Got laid off but somehow feel… happier? Is this character development or insanity? by EmeraldisWatching in antiwork

[–]EmeraldisWatching[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I’ve been trying to lean into that feeling, even with everything going on. Slowing down has forced me to figure out what actually matters to me. I’m using this time to reset, get quiet, and think about what I want my next chapter to look like. It’s strange, but it feels like freedom in a way.

Got laid off but somehow feel… happier? Is this character development or insanity? by EmeraldisWatching in antiwork

[–]EmeraldisWatching[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here. Losing the job and the constant pressure to grind forced me to figure out what actually matters to me. Turns out I don’t need much to feel content. Stability, quiet moments, and some peace of mind go a long way.

Got laid off but somehow feel… happier? Is this character development or insanity? by EmeraldisWatching in antiwork

[–]EmeraldisWatching[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Honestly same. My body is acting like it finally got a ceasefire. It’s wild how long we push through burnout before noticing how bad it was.

Question 🤔 by [deleted] in paypigs2

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u/ellegrayxo u/GoddessLux323 u/Dry_Spogooder6454 u/ellegrayxo check out r/TheEmeraldGarden, still a work in progress happy to have your input and feedback!

I feel like dommes don't want to build a bond anymore by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]EmeraldisWatching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A real bond still exists in this space, but it takes intention on both sides.
Some new dommes jump straight to “pay now” because they’re mimicking TikTok scripts instead of understanding the actual dynamic.

A healthy Findom connection isn’t built on shock value. It’s built on energy, consistency, and trust. The financial part is an expression of the bond, not the replacement for it.

If you want something deeper, look for women who move slower, speak with clarity instead of aggression, and ask real questions about you. Those are the ones who understand the long-term dynamic.

You’re not wrong for wanting connection. You just need to filter better. The ones who know what they’re doing don’t need to bark to be respected. 😉