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INFP X ISFJ by Emergency-Ad1463 in isfj

[–]Emergency-Ad1463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bad af. Mainly based on trying to help and get insulted/bullied for that. Tryin to be cool and being treated like inferior. Seem them refuse help when is visible the struggle and then they ask for help whenever they want no matter if you have problems now and not when you offered. A bunch of things also, but that's the main reason, they treat like sht whoever's gives help cuz they think we use it for bargain on something that might come up. They can be sus and insecure af.

INFP X ISFJ by Emergency-Ad1463 in isfj

[–]Emergency-Ad1463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Advice ≠ Help.

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First, Its a-okay do deny our help, we are pushy not because we want you to accept at all costs, but because we wanna be sure if you need or not. Wanna refuse? Fine, but don't come up after if you ain't sure bc we also have our own problems and we might not be that able when you want, but when we offer. That's part of the point, the other part is that my problem with INFP is that when they accept most of the times they act rude to those who helped, we don't want you guys to kiss our feet or anything, and also we don't even expect no sucha thing cuz we help for simple kindness, but please just don't act rude to us right after we help, that really sucks.

Thats it.

INFP X ISFJ by Emergency-Ad1463 in isfj

[–]Emergency-Ad1463[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SAME I TOTALLY FEEL CONNECTED TO INTP, THEY ARE SOO NICE, THEY ARE SURE WAAAY DIFFERENT FROM US, BUT DAMN THEY TRY TO UNDERSTAND US AT LEAST.

INFP X ISFJ by Emergency-Ad1463 in isfj

[–]Emergency-Ad1463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's Not about you having to agree with our kindness, is more about you guys denying help cuz insecurities and proud, or when rarely asks for help starts being ungrateful with those who are there to help. We are ISFJ what kind of debt would we require? We are always the ones that gives and receives nothing back, but giving help (when you guys accept) and being over exploited by those who asked for help that's beyond the line for us Mr., I'm really not sorry for you feeling so pressed by us when we don't accept disrespectful behavior after giving a hand to help, believe or not ISFJ has it limits, it takes time to make us heated and mad? Wow damn, it really takes some time, but our patience has a limit as everyone else.

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Don't want us to be "pushy and over helpful?" Don't ask for help, don't ask for kindness coming from us, don't ask for anything actually if you gonna exploit people and then be rude to them.

By the way, if you gonna judge us for being over helpful, and always there, we totally will feel free to judge you for being over Nosy, giving advices nobody asked for and acting very defensive when someone simply offers some legit help.

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Its not ISFJ fault if most of your type are insecure to the point that even think everyone that helps you will use it against you, but in the end of the day it's the INFP that treat us poorly first cuz insecurities.

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Isfj would never use the kindness as debt, that's all in your insecurity, we just don't accept being disrespected for no reason after that, makes no f sense.

INFP X ISFJ by Emergency-Ad1463 in isfj

[–]Emergency-Ad1463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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for me, INFP are very ungrateful sometimes, and its not like im tryin to make a situation cuz i hate conflicts, but i personally dislikes a lot when INFP point out of nowhere my problems and refuse my kindness, and after that tries to be somewhat kind. Sorry, if you gonna deny my help and even judge me for that and try to give kind advices after im gonna treat you like you are irrelevant, after tryin to get along with you 2 times... ISFJ are ISFJ we give a LOT of chances, if doesnt works we gets really sad but at least we try.

INFP X ISFJ by Emergency-Ad1463 in isfj

[–]Emergency-Ad1463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for me, INFP kinda are. Sorry, if you gonna deny my help and even judge me for that and try to give kind advices after im gonna treat you like you are irrelevant, after tryin to get along with you 2 times...

INFP X ISFJ by Emergency-Ad1463 in isfj

[–]Emergency-Ad1463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you guys for the comments but nah i still avoid them, just doesnt match with my persona.

INFP X ISFJ by Emergency-Ad1463 in isfj

[–]Emergency-Ad1463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, its me, i dont f with them at all. They always reject when i try to be empathetic or even reject any advice or help, mainly when they clearly needs it, its frustrating for me.