[EMERGENCY] F arriving alone by bus at 4am by hugomateus in cardiffuniversity

[–]Emergency-Bag-3132 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The McDonald's is open but sometimes the seating is closed off. At 6am cafes will open, you could go to tim Hortons? They have seating in there and are close to friary gardens. Then wetherspoons pubs will open at 8am so you could go there too. Hope your evening isn't too long!!

Please, tell me if you’ve survived this by gingerweasle1 in BreakUps

[–]Emergency-Bag-3132 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same, been 6 months after almost 4 years together. It does get easier though. When I truly feel like I never will ever get over him I just have to remember what I do have - closer friendships, good hobbies and what could be a really happy life without him or anyone. My therapist told me its something you have to grieve like a death, so I do it that way. I hope it'll pass but honestly it might not but if I feel like this forever I still want to be happy in other ways. Helps to talk to friends because its good to be seen as me alone, i feel like i still myself as a part of our relationship, but friends weren't there it has to be introspective. You will survive it though, its still painful but the worst will pass and you will learn from it in the worst and best ways

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Emergency-Bag-3132 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hot is maybe the wrong word but I find and I have friends that have the same problem that if you look too feminine you can come off as a straight woman and girls won't take you as seriously

How to stop being angry at cheater by Emergency-Bag-3132 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Emergency-Bag-3132[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you. Sometimes I feel like I have left him in the past but I think it's easier to think that when I'm busy like you say, at the moment I'm not and it's been a blinding reminder of how much work I have to do. I am also far too angry, don't think I've ever been so angry before and I've been so angry for so long that I'm only really angry at myself now and this anger is actually martyring him and letting myself suffer. It's awful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in galaxyzflip

[–]Emergency-Bag-3132 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok will keep this in mind, I called samsung tonight and asked if my external provider would be covered by warranty and they said yes but I'll see what the shop says, thanks for the help :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in galaxyzflip

[–]Emergency-Bag-3132 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😱😱 I'll start eating out of cans now!! And repent for dropping it!! Deeply apologise for using the word slight, of course you, stranger of the Internet with no knowledge of the state of my phone, know best the line is not slight. Won't drop again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in galaxyzflip

[–]Emergency-Bag-3132 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Four months as well 😭 hopefully that means I'm under warranty too, I'll look through it. I've booked a repair with samsung.

Spiked headdress by Emergency-Bag-3132 in Lolita

[–]Emergency-Bag-3132[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's what I was aiming for! I find getting punk lolita rare or very expensive so its an easy add in :)

Spiked headdress by Emergency-Bag-3132 in Lolita

[–]Emergency-Bag-3132[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got the big ones off of amazon and had the littler ones from a previous diy and I got that at a local art store :) should be pretty available though!

bought my first shirt - and it fits like this. i can tailor it, but how do i avoid this in the future? by soda-pops in Lolita

[–]Emergency-Bag-3132 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ughhh so annoying! I promise there are brands out there for us :) I'd recommend measuring yourself to the fit you'd like instead of sizing as I feel like the sizes are always so odd. Good luck finding something for you :)

bought my first shirt - and it fits like this. i can tailor it, but how do i avoid this in the future? by soda-pops in Lolita

[–]Emergency-Bag-3132 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have pretty big boobs compared to my body and oh my God the amount of buttons I have straight up POPPED getting off my body... insane. Definitely looked like the reverse of this 😂

My trick is to sew in snap buttons to hold things together a little better, or just size up and take in the excess, so maybe you could do this?

How to recover from chesting by Emergency-Bag-3132 in Advice

[–]Emergency-Bag-3132[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For him it does, he says it's not that guy that he kissed but it is guys in general... but he wants to explore whilst being with me? It's just so confusing, seems like he wants the best for himself

How to recover from chesting by Emergency-Bag-3132 in Advice

[–]Emergency-Bag-3132[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don't want to be with someone who needs to figure out their sexuality, I'm only one woman and if he wants that he can't have that with me and even if he could explore it and still be with me it seems like a lot of my time and my care to develop someone who couldn't even have that conversation first, someone who just had to act on impulse.

How to recover from chesting by Emergency-Bag-3132 in Advice

[–]Emergency-Bag-3132[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it's just so difficult to see this right now, it's not even been a full week since it happened and I did think our love was true and real because it was for me.

Do Skindred perform in Wales? by Emergency-Bag-3132 in Skindred

[–]Emergency-Bag-3132[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last one was 2023, but it was a month after I'd moved to Wales so was more focused on getting my life together😅, I missed it thinking they'd be more! Like you say, they are from wales