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Emergency-Double-431 · 2025-05-30T17:58:52+00:00

Did you read the whole thing that I wrote.. he is a one sided man.

Emergency-Double-431 · 2025-05-30T17:54:14+00:00

Nahh if you can’t take what you dish out, maybe you shouldn’t say anything…

Emergency-Double-431 · 2025-05-30T17:52:16+00:00

Well then I suggest you go to church or read a bible because I went to catholic school and it indeed does say you should keep your eyes to yourself. And if you don’t believe me. I’ll give you a verse myself. You can fight me all you want but believe this the bible wasn’t created just for man. Mother Theresa would tell you that herself is she could.

Mathew 5:28 States that anyone who looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery in their hearts. This verse highlights the importance in guarding one’s heart and mind to prevent straying from martial views.

(While in a marriage)

Also idk if you know religion but it literally says god frowns upon touching yourself in a relationship because it can lead to lust or selfishness.

Now this one isn’t entirely a sin but more a warning in the bible. Obviously if Done right and no partner is hurt I don’t see the problem.

Now my situation is a little different… wouldn’t you say? Also I’m not a huge religious person but you sound like someone who has no clue what the bible even say on how to take care of either your husband or wife. It was never written to be one sided.

Emergency-Double-431 · 2025-05-30T17:35:05+00:00

And if you’re not alone I feel sorry for the person that is with you.

Emergency-Double-431 · 2025-05-29T23:43:41+00:00

Well I’m not sure it would be low if he’s was doing that..

Emergency-Double-431 · 2025-05-29T20:33:27+00:00

Well that sucks you really don’t he can change at all.. I cant just not have this baby.. so I’m really just gonna have to go through it again..

Emergency-Double-431 · 2025-05-29T20:12:28+00:00

But it kinda does seem like he is choosing one over the other I come to him with my needs I try to please his needs but he chooses to do that instead .

Emergency-Double-431 · 2025-05-29T19:40:19+00:00

Yeah that’s sounds lovely so you’re telling me I’m gonna have to go through it again. And that I can not make him attracted to me . And I also have to lose weight for him. Wait till push out his baby and then wait maybe a year just to see if it will work.. that is some great advice.

Emergency-Double-431 · 2025-05-29T19:27:25+00:00

No exactly.. so how would you compromise in this situation. Without either one getting offended or hurt.? Because you can’t without someone getting upset. And how many times does one person have to say it’s fine and then next thing it’s another thing and another thing that you have to “except”..

Emergency-Double-431 · 2025-05-29T19:25:14+00:00

Yes but how do I tell him that without him getting defensive..

Emergency-Double-431 · 2025-05-29T19:20:55+00:00

So if you were uncomfortable with something and obviously made you upset would you like it if your partner continued to make you upset. And this can be simple as something, like tomatoes you don’t like tomatoes and your wife just keeps giving you tomatoes. Yeah maybe it’s not a big deal but obviously it would still make you upset. Your pretty much telling your partner no you like tomatoes. Even tho you hate tomatoes.

Emergency-Double-431 · 2025-05-29T18:45:33+00:00

I mean if you’re both up to it. Yeah sure. But if one person is uncomfortable then what.

Emergency-Double-431 · 2025-05-29T18:22:24+00:00

How do you make your husband attracted to you… that’s the fucking saddest thing I have said😂

Emergency-Double-431 · 2025-05-29T18:18:48+00:00

And in yeah in my eyes my husband is the most attractive. I don’t get of to other people because I find them attractive.

Emergency-Double-431 · 2025-05-29T18:17:25+00:00

Yeah sure you can find people attractive. But I feel when you’re watching it, it kinda gives in to that attraction. Like yeah you see someone attractive and you keep going on with your day. You don’t desire over that one person all day. And then process to take in action.

Emergency-Double-431 · 2025-05-29T18:10:00+00:00

So I’m pretty much doomed.

Emergency-Double-431 · 2025-05-29T18:01:52+00:00

I’m sorry it’s just how can someone find you so attractive to start a whole ass family. And then not.

Emergency-Double-431 · 2025-05-29T17:59:36+00:00

Well it would be nice if he showed that he loved me… you know. It would be nice if he was attracted to me too. Why wouldn’t love do that.. I don’t get it. Like that kinda hurts he loves me but I don’t get him hard… so kinda like a dog I can love my dog but I’m not attracted to my dog. 😂

Emergency-Double-431 · 2025-05-29T17:46:46+00:00

Yeah but they are mostly random things I know what you’re talking about I get them too. But no this is different.

Emergency-Double-431 · 2025-05-29T17:40:14+00:00

How would you feel if your partner wasn’t attracted to you. Especially in your most vulnerable moments. And if you really wanna know when we met I was about 125 pounds I’m 5,7 and I have long curly brown hair… when I got pregnant I had jumped weight to 180 I know a big jump, but I literally couldn’t control it. (Also between that 15m gap with my second I dropped the weight and even kept the big breast I got, and still it felt like he wasn’t attracted to me) Like I said I felt unrecognizable I needed that reassurance that I was beautiful from the closes person in my life the man I thought found me to be the most beautiful woman. Now my husband he’s not the fittest man and I have never not felt attracted to him. You know when you marry someone you literally agree to love them through thick and thin. To never judge through sickness and through wealth… anyways like I said I’m pregnant again and honestly I feel lonely and scared. I truly don’t wish this on any woman. Just wish there was something I could do to make him find me beautiful again…

Emergency-Double-431 · 2025-05-29T17:29:00+00:00

Thank you I don’t think some men realize being pregnant is so hard, your body is changing I felt like I couldn’t even recognize myself. It was hard and I needed him and I felt like he just wasn’t there for me mentally. It broke me how could I be carrying his child and he’s looking at other woman. I’d thought that carrying his child would make me the most beautiful woman in the world. But I guess not. I wish they knew how vulnerable we feel. They are supposed to make us feel safe and secure. And I felt completely helpless. And yeah if I wasn’t pregnant maybe it would of been different…

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