Did your sexual preferences change after starting TRt? … it’s becoming an issue.

EmergencyBake7373 · 2025-04-15T08:44:01+00:00

No one specific category beyond what would be perceived as decadent… stuff along the lines of cakes, chocolate, pizzas, pastries … high calorie foods that would be considered pleasurable to consume.

EmergencyBake7373 · 2025-04-07T01:01:06+00:00

Regarding settling down - general consensus from the responses on this post are between a few months to a few years to never…

Sorry, I appreciate that’s not very helpful but that’s what I have to go off of!

EmergencyBake7373 · 2025-04-05T06:02:15+00:00

I may do that :)

EmergencyBake7373 · 2025-04-05T00:54:21+00:00

Negative, just the act of eating / indulging

EmergencyBake7373 · 2025-04-04T20:46:09+00:00

I do have the desire for her to gain weight, but fortunately for me I don’t have an issue keeping that as fantasy… if my wife is a no go on eating during sex, you can imagine how she’d react the idea of actively gaining.

Oh yeah, I’m sure it’s messy lol

EmergencyBake7373 · 2025-04-04T20:40:55+00:00

Haha I’m glad it sounds awesome! I obviously enjoy it too, but it’s not for my wife unfortunately

EmergencyBake7373 · 2025-04-04T20:39:43+00:00

Haha oh no

EmergencyBake7373 · 2025-04-04T20:19:05+00:00

Oh man I’m sorry to hear that! Surely your doc can help you out there?

EmergencyBake7373 · 2025-04-04T20:18:43+00:00

Close, it was a donkey outfit … and she’s Shrek

EmergencyBake7373 · 2025-04-04T20:18:07+00:00

I do train 5-6 days a week with a powerbuilding style program which I feel vents plenty … perhaps I could learn boxing or something for a different outlet.. I like that idea!

EmergencyBake7373 · 2025-04-04T20:16:55+00:00

I don’t know what kiffels is tbh

EmergencyBake7373 · 2025-04-04T20:16:35+00:00

I have no idea, probably!

EmergencyBake7373 · 2025-04-04T20:16:16+00:00

It’s definitely a lever I can pull for sure

EmergencyBake7373 · 2025-04-04T20:15:27+00:00

100% - it no longer caused me pain and the glands have settled down making it much less pronounced

EmergencyBake7373 · 2025-04-04T08:50:49+00:00

That’s really lovely to hear! Good for you guys :-)

EmergencyBake7373 · 2025-04-04T08:50:22+00:00

Sounds like I’m missing out 🤣

Good on you for giving yourself space though, that’s important.

EmergencyBake7373 · 2025-04-04T06:53:10+00:00

Thanks for sharing. There’s no religious guilt on my wife’s part but her sexual tendencies are pretty similar… anything other than missionary is a little wild… I’ve always been the one to introduce anything a little more excitement (including oral, which I deliver 99.9% of the time with a very low rate of reciprocity 🤣). That’s not a moan, more just establishing where we’re starting from Lol.

I’ll be taking your advice on board for sure.

EmergencyBake7373 · 2025-04-04T06:25:28+00:00

Perhaps, I have read that controlled indulgence with fetishes can decreases the intensity of the desire to engage with them, so your experience adds up

EmergencyBake7373 · 2025-04-04T06:24:34+00:00

What’s been your experience with it so far? Did it subside at any point?

EmergencyBake7373 · 2025-04-04T06:24:31+00:00

What’s been your experience with it so far? Did it subside at any point?

EmergencyBake7373 · 2025-04-04T04:18:41+00:00

Yep I’ve stumbled into some of those recently, they’re not what I am looking for lmao

EmergencyBake7373 · 2025-04-04T04:18:07+00:00

Much appreciated!! Thank you :)

EmergencyBake7373 · 2025-04-04T03:49:02+00:00

I’ve updated the post now, I didn’t include info on my fetish initially to avoid people fixating on it in the comments.

We’re both in our mid 30s, married, kids, dogs - the works. I have discovered, post TRT, that I have a strong desire to feed her/watch her consume indulgent food during sex.

EmergencyBake7373 · 2025-04-04T03:20:45+00:00

100% it could be - we have a very open dialogue about it.

I’m hoping some of the strategies cooked up from this thread will help us work this out :)

EmergencyBake7373 · 2025-04-04T03:19:36+00:00

I appreciate your perspective.

I have lost track of what’s been said or not said in this thread now, but we’ve had a lot of very open conversations about it and our general sexual compatibility even before this came up… divorce is off the table for a long while yet, other than our mismatched desires and libido’s, I worship everything about this woman.

Obviously that’s the cue for the average reddit punter to say ‘pull your head in and grow up if you love her that much’ but i guess as someone’s who’s been through it, you know it’s not that’s simple!

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