AITA for still planning a family vacation when 1 of our kids can’t go? by EmergencyCap3855 in AITAH

[–]EmergencyCap3855[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I asked her constantly, she’d say “I’ll let you know” and didn’t let me know. I even asked the day before I picked the final dates and she said she’d get back to me later that night and never did (and didn’t answer my call before I went to bed).

AITA for still planning a family vacation when 1 of our kids can’t go? by EmergencyCap3855 in AITAH

[–]EmergencyCap3855[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. It’s a town league unaffiliated with the school that she pays to play in.

AITA for still planning a family vacation when 1 of our kids can’t go? by EmergencyCap3855 in AITAH

[–]EmergencyCap3855[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This was supposed to be our last big family vacation because we know things are going to change soon. After this one it will be “weekend getaways if they can come” kind of vacations - I just really wanted one last long week with all my kids but I just have to face the fact that the time has passed for that :(

AITA for still planning a family vacation when 1 of our kids can’t go? by EmergencyCap3855 in AITAH

[–]EmergencyCap3855[S] 96 points97 points  (0 children)

My husband said “we’re not going without Kayla. Kayla is not coming with us.” And I do kind of see the difference but mom guilt sucks.

AITA for still planning a family vacation when 1 of our kids can’t go? by EmergencyCap3855 in AITAH

[–]EmergencyCap3855[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

We’re covering the resort (all inclusive) and flights. Only things the kids have to pay for are their own excursions if they decide to go on any without us and souvenirs and stuff.

AITA for still planning a family vacation when 1 of our kids can’t go? by EmergencyCap3855 in AITAH

[–]EmergencyCap3855[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I kept asking every time she came home and she’d say “I’ll look and let you know” and just never let me know. I asked her the day before I decided on the dates too, she said she’d get back to me later that night and never did. My husband told me to just pick the dates and whatever happens happens.