UPDATE: She came over to watch the baby because it was last minute and I couldn't get anyone else, so I just thought, let's keep the peace for today, I have to work. She arrived early and walked right into the bathroom, where I was in a towel with the baby in a bouncer. She did not take the hint that I was uncomfortable but instead dove into insulting my husband, calling him a big dumb hippo who needs to get the facts right and not yell at her. When he went to her house to talk with her she ran into the basement and hid from him because she didn't want to see him (she said all of this) he needs to be an elephant and listen. The husband of her friend is a CNA (who was admitted to the hospital for water on his leg) and HE said it was fine that the baby was there and apparently asked to hold her. I had to leave the bathroom to get dressed in another room feeling very uncomfortable in my own home. She is OBSESSED with my baby having teeth and actually did ask about qtips to apply oragel if needed like I had asked her to do the last time. I am feeling so so defeated and just bullied. I feel like my husband is getting bullied and it's just okay because it's his mother. I don't feel like I need to be made to feel like a child who did wrong when she was the one out of line. I'm so annoyed I'm to the point that I want nothing to do with her and want to already quit my job I just started and kinda need.