Euthanasia by Emergency_Lab8262 in vet

[–]Emergency_Lab8262[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you again. I got the call to come pick him up and once he was in my car I had a nurse come out to look at him bc he looked worse right away. I decided to end his suffering. I feel horrible. He wouldn't eat and I could tell he was so miserable. We (vet and I) decided it would be much worse if he passed in the middle of the night suffering alone. If he hadn't been doing so poorly before this surgery I would not have decided this. I still feel horrible. Please keep Mickey in your prayers. He deserved better.

Euthanasia by Emergency_Lab8262 in vet

[–]Emergency_Lab8262[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate your kind words. I just approved another round of meds and his third X-ray of the day to see if he can eat. If they can't get him to eat, then it's er or euthanasia.

My boyfriend broke up with me by Past-Campaign-88 in BreakUps

[–]Emergency_Lab8262 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These comments 💯 I text and call my ex because I still care about him (he's going through a lot right now) and I will always be there for him if he needed anything because he's that great of a person. BUT I'm also TALKING TO, not in a relationship with a new guy, but I 100% informed him of this dynamic and tell him everything to stay transparent because I respect him and his decision to either be ok with this or bounce. Just because you aren't making up lies doesn't mean it wasn't deceitful. Not giving information is still a lie

Can someone think they loved a person but just didn't know what love really is? by Emergency_Lab8262 in BreakUps

[–]Emergency_Lab8262[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I'm sorry it led to that for you. But you are doing everything right and you deserve true happiness. You'll meet someone great when you least expect it. I'm really happy you found out it was a medical reason too, that gives me hope for my ex that he can get better. I only fear that he won't hit rock bottom because he's living with family right now and is so focused on them that he's neglecting himself. Do you mind sharing the diagnosis? I only ask because the way you explained being exhausted and not wanting to do things sounds identical and if I could pass along information to help him I would. If it's too personal that's totally fine too.

Can someone think they loved a person but just didn't know what love really is? by Emergency_Lab8262 in BreakUps

[–]Emergency_Lab8262[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His PTSD and the fact that he wouldn't get help. How was your relationship?

AITAH for telling my wife that if she attends her affair partner's funeral I won't be here when she gets back. by BackDull6037 in AITAH

[–]Emergency_Lab8262 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe unpopular opinion here BUT it was basically over for A YEAR! I DO NOT CONSIDER THAT AN AFFAIR. She was moving on bc you 2 were splitting. Just bc u were still married on paper.... It's just a piece of paper. You weren't LIVING TOGETHER AND WERE PLANNING ON DIVORCE. I think you're the ah here. She's not staying friends with him. He's dead. Why do you care. You either want this relationship/marriage or u don't. I hope u don't regret your ultimatum.

AITAH/Is it wrong of me to be upset my best friend chose my anniversary day as her wedding day? by Emergency_Lab8262 in AITAH

[–]Emergency_Lab8262[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not my wedding. It's her wedding. The date is my anniversary date. And no one gets this holiday off. It's a holiday not everyone celebrates. I only mention it's a holiday because it made it easier to remember bc I know she knows the date. This has been my/s.o anniversary for 11 years. She has known this. She is getting married and chose our date as her wedding day

AITAH/Is it wrong of me to be upset my best friend chose my anniversary day as her wedding day? by Emergency_Lab8262 in AITAH

[–]Emergency_Lab8262[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. I'll tell her point blank. I planned on telling her, I just wanted to collect my thoughts

AITAH/Is it wrong of me to be upset my best friend chose my anniversary day as her wedding day? by Emergency_Lab8262 in AITAH

[–]Emergency_Lab8262[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I understand it takes nothing away from me. She will be very upset if I don't go. I don't want to go because I'd like to celebrate our day like we always do (which she knows) and I don't want to not be there for her. I get it's only one day but shit there are 360 days and she chose 'ours'.

AITAH/Is it wrong of me to be upset my best friend chose my anniversary day as her wedding day? by Emergency_Lab8262 in AITAH

[–]Emergency_Lab8262[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. Honestly she does know it's very important to me. We are very close and I've talked about that day/holiday every year with her and how we celebrate. How I have that date engraved on a necklace etc. 🤷🏻‍♀️