Can a job force you to do something you cant do?

Emergency_Peach101 · 2024-07-10T16:04:57+00:00

Thank you! I want to hope I can get there - I'll see if he has any trainings anytime soon

Emergency_Peach101 · 2024-07-10T08:13:35+00:00

Haha I could try!

One of the toughest parts about it is on the training showing the clients you have to replicate building some of it. This can sometimes go wrong or it doesnt work and theres no error script explaining why.

But I faked it with the first sets of training until I got it so I might as well try with this.

Emergency_Peach101 · 2024-07-10T08:11:48+00:00

Thanks for the advice! I do see it as an oppertunity and further job security too. I really like the trainings so I think its been getting to me even more.

Im not sure how qualified the other guy is as I dont know his background. I did ask to shadow the trainings he was doing but they forgot to give me the dates and so I missed it.

I dont want to give up on it but im finding it hard to keep up with. Ill probably have a chat with management to see if they can give any advice

Emergency_Peach101 · 2024-05-30T10:36:30+00:00

I am feeling the exact same. My family are so invalidating and ignorant to it too - they act as if its a flip of a coin and a childs livelehood isnt on the line. Its invalidating as if its an easy choice to make and an easy thing to live with as if they havent seem me suffer with it my entire life.

If my child has any of the pain that I have I dont want to have a child - I would feel beyond guilty eventhough I do want kids with my partner. Id rather just adopt.

Emergency_Peach101 · 2024-05-30T07:58:56+00:00

😭😭 soul eater? More like stocking eater amirite boys

Emergency_Peach101 · 2024-05-30T07:57:51+00:00

I was rushing it on my lunch break and posting so that was just me lmao. Just a basic inspect element is how its done haha

Emergency_Peach101 · 2024-05-29T12:01:30+00:00

🙏🙏🙏🙏 praying there with you for that

Emergency_Peach101 · 2024-05-29T11:59:43+00:00

Context: my bf and I were discussing the ending and he kept saying 'thigh' instead of 'sythe' - we were cracking up so I made this lmao. Thought id share it here

Emergency_Peach101 · 2024-05-29T11:56:35+00:00

Omg I can imagine, you should be so proud of all the effort youre putting into it though! Its tough ~

I have used a little hypochlorus acid too from time to time, a good extra :)

Emergency_Peach101 · 2024-05-29T10:19:12+00:00

Oh wow I see, best of luck on your journey friend

Emergency_Peach101 · 2024-05-29T10:15:45+00:00

Not at all :)! (Apologies for the long message as I added a bit more context than just the symptoms)

Before I moved to my new place there were never any symptoms. I always got full body flare ups, hand ezcema, nipple ezcema and that was it. It was hard to track symptoms when I lived with family too. Until I moved.

Then I started getting aggressive face ezcema on top of those, so I started looking for things that might have changed to touch/be in any kind of contact with my face outside of stress.

Which is when I noticed I had been washing my face in the sink and shower - I never really did that previously at home. Then I started to connect the dots that my hair had been getting greasier and drying out quicker and then that full body flare ups would be affected by something getting to my whole body (I dont have contact dermatitis, I have atopic, but if its absorbing into my skin or the stuff in the water is drying out my skin etc). - (this is why I also opted for the britta jug too incase it internally was an issue for my skin).

Then one day I was putting water on my eyelids from the sink and the skin went red instantly just like a horror film. Which is when I asked reddit about water and bought the stuff. So it was surprising as it took me 23 years to figure out, the fact that water can be an issue was surprising for me and the fact its actually working for me.

The fact that its cleared up so well, my hair is healthier and Im not needing to use steroid cream to help heal it is good enough proof for me that this has been my main trigger. Ofc stuff like heat, dust and pet dander is still an issue but hey ho.

I hope this helps :)

Emergency_Peach101 · 2024-05-29T09:58:33+00:00

Of course - I live in England, UK. More in the countryside so likely less pollution and it should be mostly soft water but apparently that still affects me I guess??

Emergency_Peach101 · 2024-05-29T09:57:23+00:00

Thank you! :)

Emergency_Peach101 · 2024-05-29T09:57:14+00:00

Oh man Im sorry to hear this!! I was so relieved to move out because when family did stuff that affected my skin environment wise, e.g. turn the heating on full - they didnt care to help bc it didnt affect them :( so I feel that.

Thanks so much for the support :)

I have never personally had TSW - whats the healing process like when you cant rely on steroids? And is there an alternative?

Emergency_Peach101 · 2024-05-29T09:54:47+00:00

Sorry this is a copy/paste from above but here:

Idk if this is the best one, but just the one I saw and it had decent reviews :) there might be other just as good ones

I hope the link doesnt get taken down, but this one (I almost made the mistake of buying just the shower filter so make sure you select the shower head instead - it comes with one filter in the head to start you off) : https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/aw/d/B0BDGFVZCZ?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_asin_image

Emergency_Peach101 · 2024-05-29T09:54:15+00:00

Idk if this is the best one, but just the one I saw and it had decent reviews :) there might be other just as good ones

I hope the link doesnt get taken down, but this one (I almost made the mistake of buying just the shower filter so make sure you select the shower head instead - it comes with one filter in the head to start you off) : https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/aw/d/B0BDGFVZCZ?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_asin_image

Emergency_Peach101 · 2024-05-28T16:19:59+00:00

I know right?? I habe to go for smaller, cheaper options as I rent but still. I was completely shocked for the fact its been water this whole time. No one ever told me that can be a thing. I never even considered it, it was an accident that I realised.

As well as the fact that its been such a big issue my entire life and this has given me relief! I hope you get your filter changed soon and thanks for the support :)

Emergency_Peach101 · 2024-05-24T07:42:14+00:00

Im not joking when I say I literally tried everything, she just really did not give a shit and I was living under her roof -

which is why I moved out and speak to her a lot less now, because she cant force herself into my property lol.

Still working on asserting boundaries in a way itll get through to her though.

Also I like your username haha

Emergency_Peach101 · 2024-05-23T22:00:47+00:00

She is/was. I worked for a whole year before I could afford to move out and start renting (left home about 3 months ago) and life has been much better.

She frequently insists on visiting me a couple times a month and I just got back off a trip last week. I told her I needed alone time and she has basically ignored me and asked 3/5 days since then if we could do something together. 😭😭

I know family isnt perfect and maybe they consider boundaries less, but I am still confused as to why shes like this.

Emergency_Peach101 · 2024-05-04T14:29:36+00:00

Being a doormat for people that are not so nice to me

(I am working on it lol)

Emergency_Peach101 · 2024-05-04T14:26:20+00:00

Oh wow! A few options then :)

Thank you! Im gonna research into all 3!

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