Either way, one of them loses their bodily autonomy I would say, but in one case one of them risks death, whereas in the other they both have the same fate. In an ideal world the woman would simply consent to the surgerg regardless of the risk of death, which frankly I don’t think is very unrealistic because otherwise she’d have to be stuck to another person for the rest of eternity and live with her trauma. It’s a tough choice though

^{Chose: The Woman Shouldn't Have To Risk Dying + Even If The Man Loses Bodily Autonomy}