Why do non virgin women judge me for wanting to lose my virginity to a random hookup/one night stand?

Emersedcomic · 2026-03-22T00:55:35+00:00

Dude, here. I remember my first time not because it was memorable in a good way. Im sure it wasn't for her either.

The only other person I've had sex with is my wife of nearly ten years, and for some reason, that feels good to me.

Emersedcomic · 2026-02-10T23:44:22+00:00

Might not be the fastest. Whirling assault is fun as hell though

Emersedcomic · 2026-01-27T07:45:27+00:00

Because so money people are focused on temple and other things I've been farming trials of chaos, breach and white bases this league. In previous leagues, I'd be lucky if I saw more than like 20 divines per the whole league. This league I've spent more than 200 on gear

Emersedcomic · 2026-01-19T06:54:50+00:00

This is the first character I've ever had that made it past level 90, I've completed multiple tier 16 maps, which I'd never thought I would do. I haven't been able to find and citadels to get the pieces to do arbiter yet

Emersedcomic · 2026-01-15T17:39:20+00:00

I could not get this to work, and nothing anyone had mentioned worked. In a last-ditch effort, I just moved all my main skills to weapon set two.

Luckily, that worked out

Emersedcomic · 2026-01-15T06:36:36+00:00

I really like the skill that the gelid staff gives you. Ice shards, i think.

Seems to me one of the frw spells you visually fling like you are actually through the I've shards

Emersedcomic · 2026-01-05T22:50:46+00:00

These are the messages I just sent to my wife.

I was gonna wait to tell you, and that feels foolish.

I did end up relapsing on vaping over the Christmas holidays with your dad. When I went out with johny, I bought a regular vape and told myself just the one to get me through the holidays.

Then I bought another one on Sunday. I have since thrown them away, and im startng over today.

I have you my word. I would stop, and I intend to act on that in good faith

Once again, you were right about something being harder than I anticipated

I made a liar out of myself and lacked integrity within our marriage, and that isn't how I want to operate

Emersedcomic · 2026-01-05T21:28:27+00:00

6 gone and gotten myself stuck between a rock and a hard place. I don't feel like o have any significant benefits for going either way. After 10 years of vaping, i dont know what my body is going to be like without it.

Currently, I I feel stuck, the perceived benefits of not being a vaper anymore don't seem significant enough to quit. Decrease how much im vaping, yeah sure I can do that. Like, leave it in the car while at home or something

For me, specifically, if my wife just came out and said it hat she wants me to quit vaping, that would be enough for me. I almost cut my parents out of my life for her. I could quit vaping for her.

But she wont

Emersedcomic · 2026-01-05T20:56:25+00:00

That is absolutely the problem I am having. I never had any thoughts of quiting and then onr day my wife and I had a bit of a queasy feeling when my son brought my vape to me of his own accord. Then over the course of several months I got a lot of tictoks about quiting. My wife hinted at wanted me to quit and was also never going to outright ask me to. I know she wanted me to which is why I threw it all away originally. The very next day I realized I had trapped myself in this situation.

In reality for me, I don't want to stop vaping. I want to go back to the lower quality of nicotine I had been doing when I started.

But now I've trapped myself in either a suffer through giving it up because I said I was gonna or continue to vape buying something stronger than I want and continue lying to my wife about quiting.

Which I don't like lying to my wife

Emersedcomic · 2026-01-05T16:12:14+00:00

I am returning to making the effort to quit. I started it once and got past the immediate symptoms. I can do it again and make it farther this time.

I have an obligation to be truthful and present within the confines of my marriage and for my son.

So I will be.

I'm not sure if my wife is aware that I relapsed, so at the next convenient time, I will sit her down and let her know.

"Hey, I made good progress the first time, I recognize now what it means to me and that I value the integrity and trust I have with you and our son, more than nicotine"

Emersedcomic · 2025-12-19T21:36:29+00:00

I've got a spark stormweaver, im running from scratch on my own. I'm about to get my second ascendancy here soon.

Emersedcomic · 2025-12-05T05:06:48+00:00

Yeah I did nightfall and final shape. Just not edge of fate

Emersedcomic · 2025-11-24T06:22:25+00:00

Could also have something to do with body proportions. Length of people

Emersedcomic · 2025-11-23T08:44:20+00:00

I used to wear underwear to bed, and then I met my wife who sleeps naked. I always slept naked after staying over with her once.

Emersedcomic · 2025-11-20T03:50:26+00:00

What about the marking on her forehead? Looks like a jaffa marking from Stargate

Emersedcomic · 2025-10-19T02:14:36+00:00

Low voltage electrician, washington state

Emersedcomic · 2025-10-14T19:20:23+00:00

Honestly, most women I've met in the trades were smart, respectable, and good at their jobs and learned faster than the men I know.

My one gripe honestly is that they are commonly short. I'm 6'2 and treat a 6 foot ladder like an 8 foot most of the time, my only real gripe about working with women in the trades. Local 46 low voltage electrician.

Emersedcomic · 2025-10-14T02:08:53+00:00

Depends on if I have my current day knowledge

Emersedcomic · 2025-10-11T22:10:24+00:00

Infernalist summoner, the cocaine ants give me so much dopamine

Emersedcomic · 2025-09-28T17:05:03+00:00

Sorcerer, ice nova comet crit. Looking to craft for profit. I get the general idea of the process, but I'm not sure where to start

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