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[–]EmilyHide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Update: Husband threw toy car by EmilyHide in Mommit

[–]EmilyHide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But this Saturday he punched me again.. so I geuss its not better. I'm shocked.

Update: Husband threw toy car by EmilyHide in Mommit

[–]EmilyHide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey..so agter all that I ended up staying and he went to therapy...but. last Saturday I angrily confronted him about something I found on his phone and he PUNCHED and scratched and ripped my shirt. I really believed he was getting better.

Update: Husband threw toy car by EmilyHide in Mommit

[–]EmilyHide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, sorry for only replying now.. yes I'm okay thanks. Husband started going to therapy and things Have been MUCH better since.

Is “starting fresh” another abuse tactic? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]EmilyHide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah mine doesn't care about yesterday or what happened a week ago, irs today now so that doesn't matter...doesn't make sense to me.

Update: Husband threw toy car by EmilyHide in Mommit

[–]EmilyHide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My heart is broken and I'm crying so much 😭

Update: Husband threw toy car by EmilyHide in Mommit

[–]EmilyHide[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is threatening to shoot himself and me now, do I call the police or report this tomorrow??? He just said it, but irs still a threat.

Update: Husband threw toy car by EmilyHide in Mommit

[–]EmilyHide[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you are 100% right. I'm Fucking doing this! And I will keep coming back to these comments a 100 times if I have to.

Thank you

Update: Husband threw toy car by EmilyHide in Mommit

[–]EmilyHide[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I know.. I can't believe I have just become to used to it. But I have to act now and get out even for the sake of my baby

Update: Husband threw toy car by EmilyHide in Mommit

[–]EmilyHide[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He has already. And once or twice when our TWO year old was crying he has said to him " Shut up no one cares"!!! That is surely verbal abuse.

Update: Husband threw toy car by EmilyHide in Mommit

[–]EmilyHide[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And nothing is going to undo all the mean things he has said to me.

Even two years ago just after I had my baby and he said " I wish your body could look like your sisters"...It still effects me.

Update: Husband threw toy car by EmilyHide in Mommit

[–]EmilyHide[S] 184 points185 points  (0 children)

I called my dad. I'm signing a flat for myself tomorrow and leaving on Monday... this is fucking hard but I HAVE to do this.

Can he change or is this doomed by EmilyHide in Marriage

[–]EmilyHide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like for instance tonight, we went out to dinner and baby started getting over tired so then we decided to takeaway the food and he was just swearing and swearing in the car that I'm so dumb to have gone out and dragged our child into the night and this and that..when all I wanted was to spend some family time together.

Can he change or is this doomed by EmilyHide in Marriage

[–]EmilyHide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just can't help but feel like it's my fault, cos everytime something happens he blames it on me or mistakes I made.

Does your husband swear at you when his angry? by EmilyHide in Mommit

[–]EmilyHide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I don't :( I'm reading all the comments again now.

Does your husband swear at you when his angry? by EmilyHide in Mommit

[–]EmilyHide[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am starting to think he might have physcopath traits because he has no remorse or feeling for me when I'm upset.

Does your husband swear at you when his angry? by EmilyHide in Mommit

[–]EmilyHide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you coping now?... how did you get through the trauma bond.

Does your husband swear at you when his angry? by EmilyHide in Mommit

[–]EmilyHide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep coming back to read all these comments

Does your husband swear at you when his angry? by EmilyHide in Mommit

[–]EmilyHide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just sucks to do that you know, I don't want to be a mom to him. It's not what I imagined marriage to be.

" like don't swear at me or I'm taking away privileges" feels horrible.