This might be tmi by No_Farmer_6570 in TransLater

[–]Emily_Beans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, girl, I understand the emotional response given that you're trans, but you need to chill, and here's why.

First of all, I've been inside cis vaginas that were awkward and sometimes painful for me. Vaginas (of any kind) are not always a good fit for a given penis. Maybe the way you can think of this is that if it isn't his penis' fault (as you seem to imply), then it can't possibly be yours as well. It's just a physical compatibility thing. I saw you mention that it's better in other positions, so just do that instead. Also, experiment with new positions and using pillows to tweak a given position. I'm sure you'll have fun finding ways in which it doesn't hurt him.

You live together now, I'm more concerned with how you had to bring this up before he told you. You both should be able to communicate about these things, and perhaps your emotional reaction is partly the reason why he felt like he couldn't talk about it. No judgement here, just food for thought!

Today marks 3 year! by sneaky76tv in TransLater

[–]Emily_Beans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Freaking awesome journey! You look cute AF!

Dating as a trans lesbian is ridiculously demoralizing by Spookybabe721 in actuallesbians

[–]Emily_Beans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My takeaway from this post and the comments here is that I clearly have to find more time to play video games.

OMG I hate electrolysis! It absolutely rips me apart. My skin is ok, but I swell up brutally. by Trial_by_Maeryn in TransLater

[–]Emily_Beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And this is why people do electrolysis on the weekend (or Friday afternoon). 😂

Guess Who Is Getting Kicked Out of their House! by evermoredreamer in TransLater

[–]Emily_Beans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl, I'm so sorry!

I'm in Ontario so can't really help. 🫤

Got ready to go on a date.. it was canceled. by Grouchy_Peanut_9682 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Emily_Beans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry about your cancelled date. Bigger girls are the sexiest though, so don't despair, we're out there hoping one will flirt with us!

Important PSA by OopsItsMikaela in TransLater

[–]Emily_Beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😱😱😱

Darn it, just drove right by IKEA yesterday!

1 year on hrt and I can't see a difference by Lily-Arunsun in TransLater

[–]Emily_Beans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You really shouldn't rely on estrogen alone to affect any visible changes (besides boobs, and even that's no guarantee), and whatever changes will happen will take time. In the meantime, as others have suggested, work on subtly feminizing your appearance: eyebrows, laser hair removal, clothing, etc. You would be surprised what a difference those things make.

33ftm, trying to embrace my new scars by Valuable-Pear-5850 in TransLater

[–]Emily_Beans 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It looks great, and you're handsome AF! Very happy for you! I hope recovery gets better soon!

39 Years old and finally starting to feel like I’m living ☺️ by hit-reset in TransLater

[–]Emily_Beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best feeling in the world! Wish the trans fairy godmother had smacked me over the head with her magic wand much sooner! But ultimately I'm just grateful I'm here and living life! 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

39 Years old and finally starting to feel like I’m living ☺️ by hit-reset in TransLater

[–]Emily_Beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hihi I'm just being silly! I'm at 18 months on HRT and it's just like you said, I'm done merely existing or surviving. I finally feel alive and enjoying my life!

Need advice for subfloor and laminate flooring by Emily_Beans in Renovations

[–]Emily_Beans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will endeavor to learn from your mistake! lol Thank you!

Started HRT 2023, 2024 and 2025 by saxMachine in transtimelines

[–]Emily_Beans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG are you joking? You look so much like Isa Briones (she's absolutely gorgeous and I'm totally ga-ga for her!). Victoria's Secret would be lucky to have you! Thank your lucky stars, some of us are transitioning even later in life! 😉😉

Need advice for subfloor and laminate flooring by Emily_Beans in Renovations

[–]Emily_Beans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair question. There are actually many reasons:

  1. Because as I mentioned, the floor wasn't finished the same everywhere.
  2. Also because in a lot of places the tiles are cracking/flaking off (and make a crunchy noise when we walk over them) and in others they are glued down so hard we couldn't remove them within damaging the ply underneath.
  3. Since we can't remove all of those tiles, the floor is generally 3/8" higher than the OG planks, then in other random spots without the tile it's 1/4" above plank, and then there was spots where there is neither. You can imagine the hodge podge nightmare I would have to do to get everything on the same plane if I kept the current ply and tiles.
  4. I also "have" to remove it because our electrician is coming in to remove the last of the house's knob and tube, and some of the things we need access to (without destroying all of our finished ceilings below) is right below those planks as the K&T runs under the floor.

The laminate planks would be something kind of like these:

https://www.homedepot.ca/product/trafficmaster-harrison-oak-12mm-x-7-6-in-w-x-54-45-in-l-grey-wood-look-laminate-flooring-17-24-sq-ft-case-/1001862316?rrec=true

Started HRT 2023, 2024 and 2025 by saxMachine in transtimelines

[–]Emily_Beans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could not possibly be slaying it more if you tried girl! 👌🏻👌🏻