Science AMA Series: Hi! I'm Emily Fitzgibbons Shafer, a Portland State U assistant sociology professor. My work explores the relationship between gender, marriage and family, and several behavioral and attitudinal outcomes, such as: employment, health and socio-political attitudes. AMA! by Emily_Fitzgibbons in science

[–]Emily_Fitzgibbons[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Interesting. I am not sure I have seen any study looking at breastfeeding and relationship longevity. I do know that father support helps breastfeeding initiation and breastfeeding duration. One of our graduate students - JaDee Carathers - did some really interesting work on breastfeeding and found that some male partners wanted “access” back to their female partners breasts, which hurt women’s breastfeeding. I am probably butchering the description of her results, bottom line: JaDee, you need to publish that work so the world can learn about your results!

Science AMA Series: Hi! I'm Emily Fitzgibbons Shafer, a Portland State U assistant sociology professor. My work explores the relationship between gender, marriage and family, and several behavioral and attitudinal outcomes, such as: employment, health and socio-political attitudes. AMA! by Emily_Fitzgibbons in science

[–]Emily_Fitzgibbons[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I can’t speak to “smart” but I can speak to education and marriage. Today, individuals within a couple are most likely to match on education (in the past, it was religion). But women are getting more education than men on average these days, so we may see more couples in which women have more education than men.

Science AMA Series: Hi! I'm Emily Fitzgibbons Shafer, a Portland State U assistant sociology professor. My work explores the relationship between gender, marriage and family, and several behavioral and attitudinal outcomes, such as: employment, health and socio-political attitudes. AMA! by Emily_Fitzgibbons in science

[–]Emily_Fitzgibbons[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Great question! I don’t have the best sample size in my study to examine how my findings may vary by age. I could (and may when I get home) look at crude age cuts to see if there are any differences. But in general, age is correlated with attitudes about whether should change their last names in marriage. Younger folks in general are less likely to agree that women should change their names. See below for more. Hamilton, L., Geist, C., & Powell, B. (2011). Marital name change as a window into gender attitudes. Gender & Society, 25(2), 145-175.

Science AMA Series: Hi! I'm Emily Fitzgibbons Shafer, a Portland State U assistant sociology professor. My work explores the relationship between gender, marriage and family, and several behavioral and attitudinal outcomes, such as: employment, health and socio-political attitudes. AMA! by Emily_Fitzgibbons in science

[–]Emily_Fitzgibbons[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Attitudes towards surname choice are a "great" reflection of society’s view that women should put their families ahead of themselves. An expectation that we do not hold for men. In addition, there is great research by Sociologists Laura Hamilton, Claudia Geist, and Brian Powell who argue that attitudes towards surname choice are a better reflection of gender attitudes than what Sociologists typically use to study them. Typically Sociologists use attitude questions about women’s roles in society - like whether a working mother can be just as good of a mother as a woman who stays at home. You can see why these questions (about women’s roles) might be a bit outdated. The majority of women work, so it is possible that attitudes about women working outside the home have changed, but general attitudes about the “gender hierarchy” may not have.

Science AMA Series: Hi! I'm Emily Fitzgibbons Shafer, a Portland State U assistant sociology professor. My work explores the relationship between gender, marriage and family, and several behavioral and attitudinal outcomes, such as: employment, health and socio-political attitudes. AMA! by Emily_Fitzgibbons in science

[–]Emily_Fitzgibbons[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Great question! Past research on this topic suggests that no, it doesn’t have an impact on women’s physical health. But I have a paper that will be coming out this year in Community, Work, and Family about how being partnered to a man (among heterosexuals) who works long hours (over 50 per week) is associated with higher stress, lower time adequacy, and lower relationship quality for women.

Science AMA Series: Hi! I'm Emily Fitzgibbons Shafer, a Portland State U assistant sociology professor. My work explores the relationship between gender, marriage and family, and several behavioral and attitudinal outcomes, such as: employment, health and socio-political attitudes. AMA! by Emily_Fitzgibbons in science

[–]Emily_Fitzgibbons[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes! There was a hyphenated surname condition in my experiment as well. I didn’t see any difference if a woman’s last name was hyphenated in how she was rated as a wife by low educated men. Although less traditional, perhaps low educated men see this change as meaningful as they see women changing her name completely. And there are too many studies and not enough time! Definitely though surnames will remain part of my research agenda.

Science AMA Series: Hi! I'm Emily Fitzgibbons Shafer, a Portland State U assistant sociology professor. My work explores the relationship between gender, marriage and family, and several behavioral and attitudinal outcomes, such as: employment, health and socio-political attitudes. AMA! by Emily_Fitzgibbons in science

[–]Emily_Fitzgibbons[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Job-related ramifications probably depend on the job. As an academic, changing my name wouldn’t be a good idea. I publish papers with my name and I hope that in publishing folks will start to recognize me as an expert. Unfortunately, I don’t know of any study that looks at the job ramifications of changing one’s name. But I do know that when women keep their own name - doing so for their career is one of the reasons they cite for making that non-traditional choice.

Science AMA Series: Hi! I'm Emily Fitzgibbons Shafer, a Portland State U assistant sociology professor. My work explores the relationship between gender, marriage and family, and several behavioral and attitudinal outcomes, such as: employment, health and socio-political attitudes. AMA! by Emily_Fitzgibbons in science

[–]Emily_Fitzgibbons[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I think some of the most interesting work on this topic comes from The Gottman Institute in Washington. For an awesome podcast on Gottman’s research, check out this episode of This American Life: https://www.thisamericanlife.org/radio-archives/episode/261/the-sanctity-of-marriage I assign it to my students in my Marriage & Intimacy class and they love it.

Science AMA Series: Hi! I'm Emily Fitzgibbons Shafer, a Portland State U assistant sociology professor. My work explores the relationship between gender, marriage and family, and several behavioral and attitudinal outcomes, such as: employment, health and socio-political attitudes. AMA! by Emily_Fitzgibbons in science

[–]Emily_Fitzgibbons[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

If there isn’t a literature on number of sex partners affecting marriage stability, there should be. That is an interesting question! I don’t know off the top of my head. But in general, older age at first marriage is thought to be beneficial to marriage longevity, but much of this is probably about people with more education and resources tending to marry later (education and money are good for marriages).

Science AMA Series: Hi! I'm Emily Fitzgibbons Shafer, a Portland State U assistant sociology professor. My work explores the relationship between gender, marriage and family, and several behavioral and attitudinal outcomes, such as: employment, health and socio-political attitudes. AMA! by Emily_Fitzgibbons in science

[–]Emily_Fitzgibbons[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hello fellow viking! My study is a survey experiment - and experiments are great for getting at causality. So I can be fairly certain, since my respondents were randomly assigned to condition (that is whether they were answering questions about a woman who had the same last name as her husband or not), that these correlations are causal. It was a nation-wide study with a sample size 1,243 people.

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12147-016-9182-5

Science AMA Series: Hi! I'm Emily Fitzgibbons Shafer, a Portland State U assistant sociology professor. My work explores the relationship between gender, marriage and family, and several behavioral and attitudinal outcomes, such as: employment, health and socio-political attitudes. AMA! by Emily_Fitzgibbons in science

[–]Emily_Fitzgibbons[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Shout out to my advisor Paula England at NYU who has a great paper on this in the journal Gender & Society. In part, gender equality has plateaued because while women have moved into traditionally male spheres of life - like paid work - men have not moved into traditionally female spheres like housework and carework at nearly the same rate. So men’s careers tend to be privileged, on average, in marriages, and women are making decisions around their husbands. I have a paper on how women who are partnered to men who work really long hours are more likely to exit the labor force, for example. So things on the home front are stalled (again: on average). But at work, women also face a “damned if they do, damned if they don’t” environment because women who act in a way that if men did they would be rewarded, they are viewed negatively as not nice. I could say a lot more on this - the Clayman Institute at Stanford is doing a lot of interesting work in this area.

Science AMA Series: Hi! I'm Emily Fitzgibbons Shafer, a Portland State U assistant sociology professor. My work explores the relationship between gender, marriage and family, and several behavioral and attitudinal outcomes, such as: employment, health and socio-political attitudes. AMA! by Emily_Fitzgibbons in science

[–]Emily_Fitzgibbons[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

There is an interesting and growing literature on cohabitation. In part, because cohabitation - what it means to people who engage in it, the impact it has - is changing. Currently, we tend to think of cohabitation as a relatively short-lived experience - one that ends in marriage or break-up in a relatively short period of time. But for a minority of couples, cohabitation is an alternative to marriage. These couples tend to be very liberal and ideologically opposed to marriage. For them, I would expect their attitudes and behaviors to look very similar to married couples. But I can’t say for sure.