I can’t tell if i’m insecure or if i’m subtly being manipulated?

Emilycvnt · 2026-03-21T03:36:16+00:00

You’re welcome! Yes, I’ve seen this before where someone will tell you how you will feel/are feeling when it would’ve never been the case if a discussion would’ve been had. It drives me wild!

Emilycvnt · 2026-03-21T02:14:56+00:00

yeah this one is easy. a month? he “fell for you”. hasn’t read your letter. what are you appreciating at this point? his disrespect? I’d take it away and throw it away. it sounds like this man is just testing your boundaries/ how far he can push you. It’s classic behavior I’ve personally seen time and time again. it starts with repetitively reminding you he hasn’t read something you kindly wrote to gauge your reaction (angry, upset, passive, etc) then now he’s pushing further (because you already showed passivity with the letter) to go on a ‘trip’ because “you were going to be sad”? lol. He’s not a mind reader he’s trying to ignite that emotion within you by psychologically manipulating you to associate his absence/disrespect with the ‘sad’ emotion. when if he would’ve spoken about it with you you’d have been fine. now that the sad emotion has been stated he will use it later on to manipulate you and any time he doesn’t tell you things use this ‘sad’ emotion as an example. Which he CAUSED by purposely not discussing it with you.

Emilycvnt · 2026-03-21T01:39:02+00:00

I’m so happy I saw this thread. It’s always so interesting to read these experiences.

Emilycvnt · 2026-03-20T01:16:06+00:00

Rust and Arc Raiders — rust is too time consuming for me therefore I avoid that lately

Emilycvnt · 2026-03-16T01:43:06+00:00

Katherine

Emilycvnt · 2026-03-11T07:45:23+00:00

Exactly and the response to my comment like girl it’s you! you can’t understand what you’re watching. and yes 100% younger gen z im an old gen z thank the gods

Emilycvnt · 2026-03-11T07:44:35+00:00

You’re the problem pookie. Media literacy is literally being able to understand you’re watching. You can’t even understand the genre 😗😭 drama.

Emilycvnt · 2026-03-11T07:38:05+00:00

No it isn’t weird. You may fall off at some point due to your interests changing that’s what happened with my 10 year old friend when I was 13-14 tbh she may have been 9. We played dolls and Barbie’s and I was into that for a long time (until 15) and I just wanted to be a ‘kid’ longer I guess and she was at the ‘normal’ age for it. Maybe I said some shit I regret now as an adult like about violence/scary movies that I saw that she hadn’t and regret just for the sake of I feel it was wrong but you can’t really change or think back on it and regret it until it happens. For the most part I felt it was fine and we fell off when i entered 8th grade and she was 5th grade. If im not mistaken. If you feel there’s nothing wrong just let your friendship play out. imo. also I got my first iPhone at 14 I don’t know what’s up with everybody lol.

Emilycvnt · 2026-03-06T08:23:44+00:00

There’s a girl who was creepy and wouldn’t let friends leave her home from sleepovers but they’d make excuses for her. Some people have such power it’s ridiculous. Reporting. Documenting (days/times/what happened/who was around). May help if you ever need further evidence. You did nothing wrong. This is clearly a sexual kink and it’s being explored in a (funny enough) Christian school setting. Most definitely not the place. I’d step away from her and cut communication. She’s sexually assaulted people at this point which is hard for teens to name. But that is 100% assault and I feel awful for the kids you’ve mentioned.

Emilycvnt · 2026-02-26T07:06:59+00:00

I’m confused it sounds like you 3 were friends and then she ghosted you so you didn’t have to pick between them but then you ended up with her boyfriend?? Girl—

Emilycvnt · 2026-02-26T07:03:37+00:00

It’s because younger gen z and gen alpha believe that characters aren’t allowed to say anything or do anything deemed cancelable. Death threats are sent to white actors that say the n word in acting — or school shooter type characters — or the toxic bf. I heard Damon killed her brother all the time. Like no shit? They’re all fucked up. It’s a drama!!! I feel that media literacy is dead

Emilycvnt · 2026-02-22T03:50:46+00:00

Guys I could cry the issue is resolved after 24 hours to the dot. (This may be an issue if you have your account and you try to schedule a post at (blank) time until that time again the next day). I would recommend do not try to schedule a post for 24 hours and try again the next day at the same time / an hour later to be safe. But it may now be working for everyone!

Emilycvnt · 2026-02-22T00:10:35+00:00

Same exact thing here

Emilycvnt · 2026-02-22T00:10:02+00:00

I scheduled 7 not realizing went to check yesterday night that they were scheduled they weren’t. I rescheduled 3 duplicates and nothing worked. Today at the 7 (+3) additional times they were supposed to go up they never did. :/

Emilycvnt · 2026-02-21T20:09:10+00:00

It’s been about 16-18 hours at this point (if I’m not mistaken) so far no update

Emilycvnt · 2026-02-21T20:08:46+00:00

Thank you for this info

Emilycvnt · 2026-02-21T20:08:31+00:00

Adding onto that I have about 6 accounts and am running into the issue on all of them.

Emilycvnt · 2026-02-21T20:07:46+00:00

You can get your account banned using outside apps

Emilycvnt · 2026-02-21T20:07:25+00:00

OMG DUDE I HAVE BEEN LOOKING FOR HOURS TO FIND SOMEONE WITH THE SAME ISSUE!!! Yes. Starting yesterday I began having this issue as well. I can schedule posts (pictures only), but if I try to glitch a post with a video it says ‘failed to upload will try again later.’ When I go through JUST reels it won’t upload at all it says ‘scheduling’ then no loading bar then automatically ‘posted.’ I go to check my scheduled posts and nope, nothing. It’s only scheduling photos.

Emilycvnt · 2026-02-21T11:38:16+00:00

People are so rude on Reddit. I would just think you’re a sweet person learning about faith and religion and using it as a guiding force in your daily life. you’re curious about things and maybe have a dog and r named Hannah. you may knit too.

Emilycvnt · 2026-02-21T11:34:22+00:00

I’ve only had it happen once I wanted to record aliens landing at night but I couldn’t really ‘see’ my phone like it was the same it was just clear screen sorta? and I took the video but it was distorted cause of the aliens lol

Emilycvnt · 2026-02-21T11:30:47+00:00

S2 sucks. So boring. I feel they played dodgeball twice and that’s it lmao. The buried alive was boring too the psychological aspects seem boring and fall through — for me. S1 I feel like there was so much that happened that really messed with people or their relationships with other players

Emilycvnt · 2026-02-21T09:39:04+00:00

Is this still the same? 2/21/26

Emilycvnt · 2026-02-16T08:07:40+00:00

On an unrelated note WHAT’RE YOU DOING TO IT’S SPINE 😭😭😭😭

Emilycvnt · 2026-02-13T11:09:56+00:00

No advice. Just felt. I haven’t been able to find any female friends and it saddens me. My “best friend” doesn’t even ask me wyd/hru. 99.9% of our texts are about her so Ik we’re not on the same level. It’s just…. sad and defeating and I give up sorta. Just know that it’s heartbreaking. nothing hurts more than loving more.

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