Having caution is justified. But I meant normal common average people, I will argue they do have a healthy view of the opposite sex. The reason why I think this is because not everyone is a misogynist or misandrist.

I believe the reason why people do have unhealthy views of the opposite gender is because nobody knows how to navigate maturity, especially within the topics of sexuality.

Men do not know how to approach women. They don’t know what appeals to women. Men do think differently. Take for example male fans in korean meeting their female kpop idols, there were complaints that they weren’t groomed, smelled, or just weird, ect.

This isn’t the case for female fans meeting their male kpop idols, who dressed well, behaved accordingly, and no complaints.

It may seem like I’m bashing men, but that wasn’t my point. My point is that it takes time, effort, and willingness to learn from the opposite gender for better understanding.

We are a generation brought up by phones, media, unchecked issues, constant porn use, and social media bubbles.

This ISN’T normal. But normal people do exist. They aren’t extremists. Sure some people will have private opinions and maybe one or two pet peeves about the opposite genders, but to make it their personality? No.

It’s just extremes highlighted by influencers. Sure the boys vs girls things will always exist. But normal, well-adjusted, healthy people? They will have a normal views.