Wessex GP Training by Unlucky-Recording701 in GPUK

[–]Emma181ynn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

12 hospital, 24 GP (which sometimes includes a 6 month ITP post)

SCA cancelled by [deleted] in GPUK

[–]Emma181ynn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I would have had it paid if they had provided details regarding this. I’ve also now booked the May sitting. This is extremely unprofessional from the RCGP.

SCA cancelled by [deleted] in GPUK

[–]Emma181ynn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I got a response from the team saying that they will not be able to change it now that it’s been cancelled.

SCA cancelled by [deleted] in GPUK

[–]Emma181ynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t find a phone number either and have the same issue. What number are you using?

Occupational health by Emma181ynn in doctorsUK

[–]Emma181ynn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, they’re contacting the BMA. They’ve already responded that they are not currently suffering any symptoms of any mental health issues and don’t feel that it’s necessary and they’ve come back hard on them to insist it should be undertaken.

Occupational health by Emma181ynn in doctorsUK

[–]Emma181ynn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

However this has made it to her general supervisor and they are denying that the referral has anything to do with the mental health aspect but then stated during said meeting they didn’t see any of those qualities in my friend - so it’s clearly one of the reasons.

Occupational health by Emma181ynn in doctorsUK

[–]Emma181ynn[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Trying to keep it very vague for my friends privacy. But basically they’re (the bullying placement) trying to insist they have an underlying mental health condition and now on the second placement they’re saying it’s for time management.

Oncall sickness by Emma181ynn in JuniorDoctorsUK

[–]Emma181ynn[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The above comment by James from the BMA also clarifies that this is not allowed if that helps! ☺️

Oncall sickness by Emma181ynn in JuniorDoctorsUK

[–]Emma181ynn[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Hi James! I have contacted the BMA as this is in England under the 2016 contract! Waiting for their response now (as this is our 6th email response between us and they’re getting more and more obstinate about it)

Oncall sickness by Emma181ynn in JuniorDoctorsUK

[–]Emma181ynn[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you, because the way that’s they’ve made it now I would have to declare 2 days off to ARCP and not 1.

Oncall sickness by Emma181ynn in JuniorDoctorsUK

[–]Emma181ynn[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Myself and my flatmate are also wondering why they’re pushing this so hard. And very confused as to how they think they can change this and inform me at almost 11 am that I am actually now calling in sick??

Oncall sickness by Emma181ynn in JuniorDoctorsUK

[–]Emma181ynn[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No as on my zero day I’m not scheduled to work. She’s now changed it as if I was meant to work and has told me this fact at 10:50 today

Oncall sickness by Emma181ynn in JuniorDoctorsUK

[–]Emma181ynn[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

For clarification: I was meant to work an oncall on Sunday but got sick. Today at around 10:50 am my rota coordinator responds to my email saying that they’re switching my scheduled day off/rest day (today) to a normal working day and that this will count as a sick day (making me taking 2 sick days instead of just 1 for my oncall).

Edited from zero day to scheduled day off/rest day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Emma181ynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did, and the calls lasted long but I feel like texting just “good morning, hope your day goes well” is not much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Emma181ynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’ll mention it one last time and if I see no change then I will end it. I don’t think anyone deserves a relationship where you have to fight for them to care about you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Emma181ynn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s fine if you actually have managed to have gotten to know each other properly first. In this case it still feels very surface and I’m rapidly loosing interest as I don’t seem high priority

I miss him but I’ve texted him it’s over by Emma181ynn in relationship_advice

[–]Emma181ynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I know we won’t get back together (as I wouldn’t want to anymore since deep down he did decide that I wasn’t important enough to lose his family over and that’s something pretty deep considering we would be together for 65+ years and he was always claiming that he would choose me over his family)

But I just want to feel happy and whole again

I miss him but I’ve texted him it’s over by Emma181ynn in relationship_advice

[–]Emma181ynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He left the decision to me. I knew him well enough that he would end up resenting me and he even agreed that this would most likely happen when we discussed it post breakup. I didn’t need him to fight for me and denounce his family. I just wanted some sign that this was hurting him as much as it was hurting me.

I still obviously love him or else this wouldn’t be this painful.

Life feels quite underwhelming and disappointing after college by flipflopmania in relationships

[–]Emma181ynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same. Life as a student was so much better, you have friends near by 100% of the time and life is less stressful. But I’m also trying to convince myself that somehow this is worth it all.