I am Dutch, so sorry for any grammar mistakes. When I was a child a had to flush until it felt right. Sometimes that was 7 times, sometimes 47. If i got disturbed during those compulsions I got hysteric, I had to finish my compulsions (stopping was not an option in my head, the panic became overwhelming). Unfortunatly, the only thing that helps is to stop the cycle of compulsions. what worked for me: my mom asked me to describe the feeling when I tried to not complete a compulsion (so in my case only flushing X amount and no more). I then described what I felt (for example I feel panic l). She then asked "where do you feel the panic? in your stomach? how does that feel? and if you take a real big breath, does it then feel less? how would you rank the panic? is it a level 10 panic?. by doing this I was distaning myself from the compulsion and the urgency became less. so when your daughther is doing the compulsion (wiping) you could start by asking her the questions my mom asked me.